Is it really a compliment when a guy says you have big boobs?
On a daily basis guys make remarks (like damn girl you have a HUGE rack, take it off and let me see those things) about my chest they said it's a compliment but I don't see how.
I think what they really mean is: "Wow, you have a huge rack! ". Nothing more than that. I would think the same if I saw a girl with big boobies, but I wouldn't necessarily think I'd "do" her. Its just a thought, like thinking "Wow, she's tall". It doesn't have to be a compliment, but is just a thought, and some people express thoughts with words. That's the way it is.
Is just a statement, and like the other person said, what is really going on the guy's mind is, 'damn, I'd like to get on those.' (and I'm keeping that quite plain). Now, responding to those---well, you can simply ignore the person, or just say, 'thanks for noticing'. Guys react differently so is hard to say if they will continue that, or just leave you alone. However, whats for sure is that the guys that do come up and tell you that, are the ones you can simply dismiss as immature. And about the other person saying they are pervs.. all I gotta say, and who isn't a perv nowadays.. geezus. is really more immaturity and lack of communication skill than anything else. :)
I think it is an age thing, You are dealing with High School boys who are just obsessed with it right now... I would listen to what the anonymous girl said that if it makes you feel uncomfortable, you have to do something about it, but you will learn as you get to know older guys that not all men are obsessed and you will realize that you are lucky...
I think what they mean to say is "I'm turned on by your big breasts" but hopefully only a boyfriend would say this (and not in front of other people) as it is your body and technically it's sexual harassment when people say it when you're not in a relationship with them. They may see it as a compliment, but to you (or at least it should be) it is a degrading remark against women because they see boobs and not your personality.
Just because their thinking it, doesn't mean they should say it, it's rude. If you respond to the remarks in a "thank you" manner, they will only continue to make sexual remarks about your body, It's all about respect for your body and demanding that others have the courtesy to show respect for it too.
well I'm a 36 DD, sometimes I'm comfortable in my skin and some other times I think I'm not I just hate them I wish I had smaller breasts , sometimes...
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Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
I would most likely be in blue jeans with a nice shirt or T-Shirt depending on where we go. Early in the date I would enjoy a quit dinner where we actually could talk and find out if we thought it might work. If things clicked ok, I might suggest that we go for a round of drinks and dance or go have a few drinks and shoot pool. If the weather is right we most likely would have been on my Harley.
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
One she would have been able to judge if I as the type of guy she'd want to see again. The same goes here. I think I would have opened up enough to let her know my goals.
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