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Ladies, do you prefer a man who goes fast, hard, but not last very long, or a guy that takes his time and lasts?

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dasouthernicon (Age:30 to 35) When: More than a year ago

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I mean, like if a guy goes hard and fast, but can't go past 15 minutes or so, as opposed to a guy that is able to last 45 minutes or longer, but he don't go very hard. I've always wanted to know what you women thought on this one.


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EarthAngel When: More than a year ago

i like it slow and hard. it doesn't have to last 45 min. gosh I would actually be too tired for that. Just give me my orgasm then get off haha. It doesn't need to be long.just long enough ;)

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Lol.... 45 minz is just rite doe... - More than a year ago

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When: More than a year ago

45 minute man for sure. 15 minutes hardly makes it work getting undressed for. I like the speed to vary not just one steady pace through the whole encounter.

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I heard that!!!! I've always wondered what the ladies be liking- I always hear about how they LOVE it wen guys do it fast and hard.... - More than a year ago

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I do like it hard & fast don't get me wrong, but if it's only going to last 15 mins I'll just be getting warmed up by then, and when it's over I'll be frustrated and unsatisfied. That can affect a relationship in the long run. Now I'm not saying every time we have sex it has to be a marathon, but I need to know you are putting my needs up there too, along with your need to get off. - More than a year ago

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I'm the type that loves it wen it lasts for about 20-45 minz, because then you get to understanding each other's bodies and all that... plus it's just good wen you get all tired (and ur still wanting more) - More than a year ago

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LishaJones When: More than a year ago

For myself. its a both! It depends on my mood. Sometimes I want to just get in there get it done and enjoy it. In this case it would be the fast hard, not long.
In some I want to explore every inch of each other bodies taking it slow. and lasting long.its more passionate it that way.but then again its nice to have both in the same time. slow then fast and hard.slow.then fast hard. As long as I get off it doesn't matter how long it took to get him off 15 mintues or 45 mintures.

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mommysteph When: More than a year ago

Can't I have both? lol.
I love for it to be longer. I mean 15 mins is good for a quicky but its hard to find a man that can last more then 15mins lol. at least at my age. that's why I date men older then 30 for maturity and sexual gratification.
I think if you want a more loving and intimate sexual experience the longer the better. to feel one anothers bodies meshing together as 1. rhythmic loving, pleasure deep in the soul.
But for sexual gratification I like the fast sex because the emotion doesn't matter.

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