Ok so I just found this out..

sadly there are a lot of guys out there like this, but there are even more who want to make sure that their girl is well taken care of. they get pleasure from giving you pleasure. you're young, you will have plenty of experiences, some good, some bad, but the point is that this guy obviously didn't care about you. he was very selfish and you deserve better. there is nothing wrong with you or the way you feel, I think anyone would be angry at this point, just try not to dwell on it. things will get better and you'll find a guy that wants to make you his priority and in turn he should be yours. sex is always better for both parties if they care more about their partner rather than themselves.

on a more personal note that may or may not help you out: it used to be really hard for me to orgasm, it wasn't due to lack of attention or anything like that, I was just inexperienced. I had never had one before and I would find myself distracted from the pleasure, not that I didn't love my man (we're still together, 4 years later). but once I finally had one it became easier and easier for me to finish, often at the same time he did (which was so awesome). maybe you should try pleasuring yourself (a) to see what is more appealing for you and (b) so you can get used to the feeling of climaxing.

forget that jerk, it's time to move on to bigger and better things. no pun intended :)

Sounds to me like you are perfectly normal and he is totally incompetent. Your pleasure should be his primary concern. If he does that, you will be satisfied and so will he. Sometimes it takes guys a while to learn the ropes. :)

no and him only lasting few minutes don't make it no better. Women have a hard time aquiring an orgasm unlike us men, when we masturbate or have sex we can aquire one.

he should do more fore play with you, it gets you to orgasm much quicker if it's more intimate

it takes us girls much longer to get our nut then it does for a guy so if any guys are reading this I don't matter if ya don't like eating p**** you got 2 because that's just selfish there's nothin wrong with you girl he needs to please you better so tell him eat it lol

Yes VERY normal. For some girls it takes a lot. I'm the same way, and sometimes you don't orgasim if your nervous so just enjoy and do not think about when you having sex.

first off, you need to express to him the importance of foreplay. if a woman doesn't get proper lubrication before penetration it can tear her up, literally, cause bleeding and infections. second, you if you are not getting satisfied then perhaps you should try different positions. the same does not go for everybody, but I find that if I'm on top I always orgasm, sometimes before my man does. it all depends on the type of stimulation you need. when the woman is on top she has better control of the friction which she can manipulate into clitoral stimulation. on the other hand, if you prefer g-spot stimulation then maybe you should try either "doggy-style" (not romantic, but it works) or have him on top, but with your legs over his shoulders. I find the latter to work best for me, but like I said everyone is different.

make sure he wears a condom, not only because it helps prevent pregnancies and stds, from what I hear (not saying I'm 100% right) it slightly dulls the pleasure for the man, therefore increasing his chances for lasting longer.

as for not climaxing in just a few minutes, there is no 'normal', but foreplay will definitely help, especially if he can get you to orgasm before penetration or at least get close to it, either through oral or finger stimulation. also training your mind to realise how pleasurable everything feels can increase your chances. hope this helps. good luck.

YES its normal for you NOT to orgasm to his inexperienced and selfish behavior. Forget this looser and wait for the right one to come along.