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24 year old guy who's still a virgin, should I just get a prostitute?

I already looked around here on GAG and see that girls don't go for nice guys and they don't care about their virginity or a guys for that matter but are quite happy to deflower guys then toss them aside. So I want to get over this inability to find someone but it seems that today the only way you get a girlfriend is by having sex with them first and seeing if it goes anywhere. I always thought I'd find someone special but as I got older I realized that girls don't wait when it comes to sex and that they want an experienced guy. So I'm stuck. I see here on GAG girls here go on and on about confidence and that you should fake it and pretend to be confident to get a girl to pay interest in you. So I've come to the conclusion that I need confidence and to be detached when using women. I've felt quite lost after I found out that a guys virginity is laughed at these days and that it isn't valued by anyone. So I've been thinking since most girls aren't virgins anywhere near my age and a guys virginity is just something to laugh at and means absolutely nothing to them maybe I should just get a prostitute. It's legal where I am they have to be clean and tested weekly. I'd get sexual experience and confidence out of it, and I'd feel human again instead of some freak. So should I just get a prostitute?
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Answers from girls all seem to say "wait indefinitely like a doormat" in one way or another. No thanks ladies I've had enough of waiting, if I'm not good enough for you now as I am then I'll never be. Thanks to archer86 and another guy that said I should look into escorts who offer GFE. I found 2, both charge $160 and hour which I'll say right now is a lot cheaper then what I've been paying on dating sites over the years, where girls never reply. I'll look around some more.
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I suppose I should update this for other guys who are virgins and like myself are tired of all the BS and have come looking for an answer just like I did. I did go through with it and I am very glad I did. The whole event was nice and afterward I felt relieved and human again. I am so happy to be human again and not some doll for women to say I must be like this and that to be good enough person to have sex. It was far from emotionless sex to me, there was talking and intimacy involved.
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I also felt the bitterness that had been building up in for years ease and I felt more content with my life. Anonymous User, MercZilla, jennibheag and the troll girl whose answers were deleted showed me that girls are two faced liars and complete hypocrites and that I don't want a relationship with someone like them ever. They made me lose a great deal of respect in women and relationships.
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I hired an escort with GFE for 2 hours, she had an apartment for clients, she didn't quite match her pictures but I was fine with that. Everything was clean and well made. She lit the bedroom with romantic red candles which really added to the atmosphere. I was upfront with her and told her I was a virgin and that it was my first time, she was utterly shocked and proceeded to tell me how most people would have at least had a few sexual partners by my age, things were very awkward after that.
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Sorry for the delay but gag limits updates to 3 per week on a question. She was very nice but awkward about it and she really did make me feel at ease being with her. I will always remember this girl as the one girl who made me feel special, when to all other girls I wasn't good enough even for a first date.
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She was the first girl I ever saw naked, The first girl who touched me, The first girl I ever touched, My first kiss, The first girl that I ever had sex with. And the first person I ever shared intimacy with.
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To other guys who are in the situation I was in all I can say is stop listening to women and do what you feel you need. Women are not going to wait for you or treasure that you saved your virginity for them and you will realize this just as I have. So stop wasting your life waiting for someone special because you're not going to find her. I will treasure this event for the rest of my life and if I don't get dates or if I feel like I want sex or intimacy, now I know how and where to find it.
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  • If you looked on GAG, you didn't pay attention to the right things.

    Girls do go for nice guys. Provided they are interesting, confident, nice guys.

    Interesting Confident "Jerk" > Boring Shy "Nice"

    But Interesting Confident "Nice" > Interesting Confident "Jerk"

    "I need confidence and to be detached when using women. "

    No. Confidence, sure. Detached, not so much. Be independent. Be challenging. Do not be clingy, do not give her everything she asks for, do not give her everything you think she needs or wants. Be sometimes difficult. Being detached, will not get you anywhere.

    "you should fake it and pretend to be confident to get a girl to pay interest in you. "

    Sort of. The thing is, if you can master the art of pretending to be confident, you'll find that people will treat you differently, even though you may not be feeling that confident inside yourself. And as time goes on, you realize that the pretending is easy, and the results are pretty amazing. And when you have confidence in your ability to fake confidence, you suddenly realize that *that* is confidence. I'm not doing it justice in the explanation. But it's how shy guys get confidence. They fake it, until they realize being confident is easy. And when they know how easy it is, it's like a feedback mechanism. It's just easy. Lack of confidence comes mostly from thinking being confident is some mystical rare gift possessed by a lucky few.

    To your question : With a prostitute, you'll get over the mental hurdle of being a virgin, and you'll get some sexual experience. Visit a few over a few months, and you'll be as sexually experienced as most guys your age who haven't had a long term girlfriend.

    If you have no problems with paying for it (and I don't see why you should have any problems) then I'd have some advice for you.

    1) Take your time to find a girl who appeals to you. Shop around.

    2) They tend to charge by the hour. Just pay for the one hour. Chances are, your first time will be over in 30 minutes or less. No harm done if that's the case. Don't do something silly like pay for a whole night.

    3) Tell her in advance its your first time. They'll change their tactics accordingly.

    4) See if you can find one who offers "GFE" or "GirlFriend experience" It won't be the cold and mechanical type of sex which is often favoured by hookers and their clients.

    5) If you find one you like, you may be tempted to visit her more than once. A couple of problems there. Guys can get emotionally fixated on the girl who takes their virginity. It'll be a bad idea if you get fixated on a prostitute. So just be aware of that. Second, while she would be able to get your "education" started, by knowing what you've done and not done, etc... you should really be looking for variety. When you find a girl who isn't a prostitute, you will want to have seen a variety of different p**** shapes and sizes etc...

    • Thanks for the advice. I payed close attention to what was being said in questions that favor nice guys answers range from 4-8. While questions that hate on nice guys range from about 300+ you should have a look it's very clear. From these answers I also seperated the lies, fantasies and hypocrisy from the realistic which has lead me to this question. I've had enough lies from girls who claim to want one thing but when it comes to real life differ in their actions towards that thing greatly.

    • Ever hear the saying, "Men are from Mars, women are from Venus"? The women aren't exactly lying to you, we as different sexes also have different paths of thinking. They DO want prince charming but prince charming is boring and predictable so emotionally he's not "the one". Be you, be charming, witty, and "nice" but don't be timid, self-loathing (if you hate yourself how can you expect anyone else to like you?), and let people walk all over you. Speak your mind, if she rejects you so what?

    • Very true Surferdude, but unfortunately, some people will cling to their comforting delusions, no matter how often they are told they are wrong.

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  • You are sadly mistaken if you think women don't want a nice guy, but there is such a thing as being too nice. I am a nice guy and I am no where near a door mat. I am a nice guy because I don't treat women like s***. You need to be confident in yourself, and it doesn't sound like you are if your thinking about getting a prostitute. Every girlfriend I have gotten was from being a nice guy. You don't have to be an a-hole to get a girl, those d*** heads get girls is because there confident. You got to learn to take rejection and not be so bitter because you haven't found a girl yet. You got to have pride, don't think you can get her, know you are. If you think your virginity is an issue in finding a girl, don't tell them. For me if I don't have some sort of feeling for a girl its basically over glorified masturbation. I also wouldn't waste money on dating sites, talking face to face works a lot better. My definition of a nice guy is: a guy that doesn't treat a girl like a piece of meat, or a warm hole to put your d*** in. A nice guy will treat a woman like a person and not degrade her at every chance they get. While you are right that for most people virginity doesn't really matter anymore, but having feelings for the person your sleeping with is important.

    What you need to do is get back on the horse you fell off of and find yourself a girl. Quit being pissed off because your still a virgin, suck it up and drive on. I have a friend that didn't lose his virginity till he was 26, and another that's 28 and still a virgin, and I don't think any less of them.

    You need to let go of your hatred towards women, and being a virgin, because all its going to do is burn you alive. I have been rejected so many times, but it never stopped me from going after another girlfriend. Rejection is like a shot of whiskey, it burns at first but it goes away. If you don't keep trying for a girl you will never get one, you'll miss 100% of the shots you don't take. If your worried about not being sexually skilled here is some advice. Do what feels good read her body language if she moans louder when you do something keep doing it. If your worried about how long you'll last don't condoms come in packs of 3 for a reason.

    But as I said before in my previous answer. Don't get a prostitute, you will most likely end up regretting it. Save your money and masturbate. Also getting a prostitute won't cure your loneliness, which sounds like the root of the problem to me.

    That is my advice to you, its your choice to listen to it or not.

    • Firstly ahole don't assume, secondly learn to read.

      I posted an update 7 hours before you posted your crap so go read it.

      The huge nice guy hating threads seem to have disapeared especially the 156/148 one that was very popular a few months ago but let me post you some light reading.

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  • It makes me sad to read that the masses on women on here make you guys think we( as in women) as a race don't like nice guy. Here's my story..

    I meet a guy online and we started talking. He was 23 sweet and caring and just all round a nice guy oh and a virgin... a year of talking later we decided to meet . he flew to ireland and we spent 3 days together. Over the course of the 3 days we had sex.. unfortunatley it wasn't my first time(I had lost my virginity stupidly at 18) but it was his. now 3 years later he's moved to ireland and we have our own home and were getting married... Moral of the story girls do go for nice guys and their sexual status doesn't matter.. unless the girl is entirely shallow...and if that's the case they probably ain't worth your time anyway..

    But I'm not telling you to sit around and hope for the best... If you wish to have sex and lose your virginity with someone special etc stick it out and keep looking..

    But if your just want to get it over with so you feel more "human" and confident in future.. definately look into the sex industry... or hook up with a understanding women with experience and patience!

    P.s. I hope it all works out for you the way you want

    • Thanks for sharing your story. It's sadly something I see everywhere, girl has sex with guy, then bags a virgin guy later. Why do girls get virgin guys but guys can't get virgin girls? How can you say "stick it out and keep looking" if you couldn't even do it yourself?

    • Well that's a valid point but I was young dumb drunk and stupid. legal drinking age here is 18 and I was not very good at holding my drink I always wanted to wait but I fell for a charming carismatic guy who I thought was wonderful.. but he humped me and dumped me! Was the biggest mistake of my life. I don't like that you make me sound like I was collecting his virginity. It was irrelevant the me.I just wish I had waited too! And I think you'll find that I didn't just say sit around and wait!

    • I said if you want to wait for someone special stick it out if not just go to an escourt or something... And for the record I don't think you should generalise and say most girls sleep around in their teens or twenties I have only had 2 sexual partners in my life... One is the love of my life and the other was the immature mistake I made!

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  • I'm not going to tell you not to get a prostitute because if you feel like you need one, then by all means do it. You're the only one who knows what you need. I essentially agree entirely with the first anonymous poster (second reply). I think you may have mixed up or skewed the results to the answers you were looking for because, as it does to all humans, negatives speak louder than positives. When things affect a person personally it isn't uncommon for them to take the negative statements as the majority and as facts, and people also tend to mix up what people say.

    Again, getting a prostitute is your decision. If you do, be smart about it. In the time being try your focusing on not seeing or treating your virginity as a disability. Also, please note that it's impossible to tell if a guy is a virgin if he knows what he's doing, and you don't always need physical experience to be good at something. My boyfriend (20) is a virgin and is amazing with fooling around :P I sometimes have to stop and wonder if he's actually a virgin lol. If I didn't ask him, I wouldn't have known :P

    • In relation to the results questions that favor nice guys range from 4-8 answers while questions that hate on nice guys range from about 300+ maybe you should have a look. And actions speak louder then words ever will and my experiences in this area have greatly colored my views on it.

  • Your story made me sad :( if it helps there are girls like me who do love those nice guys. I am extremely attracted to them. Its a huge turn on! It just makes me smile when I see a nice caring guy that will look out for you. and I am a virgin to. and I'm going to wait till I fall in love. to me, sex feels pointless if its not with some1 you care about. I don't really think I would be able to have sex with some1 I wasn't in love with. I would have to feel comfortable and trust the guy. That's what makes it special. lol. And I would never laugh at a guy who is a virgin. that's ridiculousness. haha. So I think it was okay of you to do the whole prostitute thing. But just don't give up on girls or love, just yet :)

    • The thing about giving people false hope is that the hope wanes until it begins to make the person bitter. I've given up on both girls and finding love, this act was to finalize it for me so that I could stop believing in false hope that girls like you spread by getting over it and moving on with my life.

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  • What the crap? Really? Well apparently you haven't met every girl! I've met quite a few guys and girls on here that are waiting until marriage and yep, I am one of them. I would prefer a nice guy over a bad guy any day because in the end I will have more trust and confidence in him. If you are just wanting sex then you are going to end up doing whatever you do. If, on the other hand, you are wanting it to be special and with that special person then I say you need to wait. She is out there. :) No prostitute!

    • Don't be stupid no guy can meet every girl in the world. I was a nice guy once then 2 years ago I woke up and realized it was getting me nowhere and that no girl really gives a sh*t about virginity or nice guys. That made me really bitter so I can no longer call myself a nice guy I truth so if I get rid of my feelings for wanting sex to be special then I can be like the rest of the world, normal human not some freak who's a joke to be laughed at. With no feelings sex will be detached.

    • Well that's your decision to make and I hold nothing against you for it. You asked and I was giving my opinion...Honestly though you can be "normal" like everyone else but look at the divorce rate and families that are falling apart these days. I'm in no way blaming it on sex, but be normal like everyone else and your are bound to have the same result in life as them. You were made original so don't die an imitation.

    • Bitter will get you nowhere because no one wants to be around a downer or an a-hole. Also, when a woman says "nice guy" it literally translates into boring guy or doormat. To stop being that "nice" (boring) guy you don't have to become an a-hole.

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  • You are going to get a lot of different replies on what to do here. I ask what is it you want? If your answer is just sex, then begin looking at the sex industry. My professional advice is to avoid the smelly strollers and the wicked lot-lizards. That is just trouble. What else is there you ask?

    Escorts and Nevada brothels.

    The best escorts are found in Canada where prostitution is legal. The women there take much better care of themselves and are not ripoffs as some of the escorts are in USA. The bordellos in Nevada are legal and clean. You can find escorts in every major city in America but you never know what you will get out of them as perhaps only 50% will offer "full service." Hiring an escort will not be cheap compared to the strollers, you are basically paying a woman's monthly rent for her services. You are paying for quality service however as escorts look the same as the women you attend college or work with on your job.

    Virginity is only valued by the religious groups. What virginity is good for? I dunno. Gone are the days of blood sacrifices for the gods and nobody is going to be the Second Virgin Mary. I will let the church talk with you about that stuff.

    Final advice: do not hire a woman for only one hour as the time goes by really fast. Two hours is good enough, three or more is a bit pricy except for Asians in Canada. Best bang for your buck there!

    Now pull out a small loan, lie about what it's for and enjoy!

    • You seem to be... well informed...

    • Thanks for the advice.

    • Seven years of trucking and over twenty years of looking for that special woman, I should know these things. Sad but true. Despite all the women and a few men who insist on continuing the search for a woman, they fail to mention that finding a woman is easy. The trick is getting a woman to do something with a man. Very challenging. Women do not make themselves "easy" ya know.

  • no prostute, find a girl you like.

  • Ah. Don't give up on women yet. There are those of us who want the nice guys. We do actually exist and there are a fair amount of us. Even if I weren't a virgin, I think that I would find a virgin guy more attractive. I would be honored that he chose me. But, I am a few years younger than you, so that might be it...

    Please don't be detached. Confidence is important but detachment makes me feel stupid for paying attention to them. For wanting to be with them because it makes it seem like you don't care as much as I do.

    "I'd get sexual experience and confidence out of it, and I'd feel human again instead of some freak." -- But, if that is reall how you feel, and what you want to do, then go for it. If you feel that bad about yourself...

    • then allow me to ask you miss why women have sex with jerks,thugs,men whores and players etc. etc. and give them her virginity then give us nice guys left overs ask yourself this then you'll know what he is asking it's tough on us nice guys because us nice guys get bad reputation what's wrong with the women's community I'm asking you your perspectives

    • and when and if they get her pregnant and she have 5 kids and and years later she wants a nice guy what's up with that I'm not a jerk I'm truly a nice guy and I'm still looking for a virgin girl and I'm saving mine for marriage and I expect her to do the same

    • I think you aren't looking for the right type of woman. Many women think they can change a bad guy into what they want and that is why they go for them. I'm not interested in that nor do I want the greater chance of pain that accompanies a bad guy. I'm still a virgin because I am waiting for the right guy -- the kind that will appreciate me as much as I do him.

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  • look you can shag whoever or whatever you want as long as its with mutual consent but erh don't you think it'd be nice if your first time was with someone you cared about? afterall its gonna be something you'll have to remember for the rest of you're life

    • You don't think I want that? Well guess what I cannot have that no matter how much I want to so I have to settle for what I can. I'm tired of rejection, I'm tired of being lonely because I want someone who actually matters.

  • Stop whinning get a girlfriend. Don't you think sleeping with a hooker is kinda gross?

    • The feelings I had have been buried in loneliness, shame, bitterness and the hate I've recieved from women. I want to feel human again, I want to feel like a living breathing person with a sex drive.

    • what could they have done, that was so bad?

  • I'll add something to the good advice you've gotten from people already.

    If you do hire a prostitute, never ever ever tell the girl(s) you're seeing that you were ever with a prostitute.

    They may act like they are worldly wise, they may tell you they'd understand and that they'd never be upset, and they just want you to be honest with them.

    That's all bullsh*t. Take it with you to the grave.

    • Thanks I agree with that since I already asked that question and saw the hypocrisy comming from girls in regards to this. It's no like girls would tell the truth now days about their sexual history anyway.

  • If you want to, why not

  • I'm sorry but there are a lot of women out there who would date a guy without wanting to have sex with him. I'd say middle eastern women, Indian women Pakistani women Iranian women, Arab women, anyone of the middle east background would date a guy but would never have sex with him until they get married.

    so I say don't get a prostitute!

  • Please don't do that; don't change your opinion on something that was important just because you think girls don't value it? I'm a virgin and though I don't think it s big deal for me. I would never take a guys virginity and throw him away. The problem with me is I want to be in a relationship before I have sex with someone. Things are so casual these days it seems like no one wants anything permanent...but I'm determined to be in a loving relationship before I do anything so intimate. Please don't generalize all women... because I for one no I am not one of the ones you have described above and its a bit insulting. I have yet to find a experienced guy who wants a virgin girl! and before a guy has turned me down saying he didn't want to be in a relationship with a virgin! I'm just gonna stick it out and keep waiting for that one guy who wants to have a relationship with me who wants to me to be his. please don't pay to harshly get rid of something that many find precious

    • Who are these many people who think virginity is precious? You yourself say its not important to you and there are MANY MANY women who say the same, so in actuality it isn't precious because girls don't care.

    • You read wrong I said! I didn't think me being a virgin was a big deal, but that doesn't mean that I wouldn't be honored to take a guys virginity. Why are you so hung up on this? its only as important and big of a deal that you make it to be? I also said I'm waiting to be in a loving relationship before I had sex, so obviously I still hold some moral value over my first time. Its not super important but I don't want to regret it. Stop being hung up on it, when the time comes itll come.

    • Why should I value it if it isn't important?

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  • ASAP!

  • Hey I was 26 when I had my first time. She was a stripper who for some extra cash did "private shows" on the side. Some for about $140 I had my first in a seedy hotel in Hollywood. In hindsight im not sure if I would've repeated it.

  • Dude, I was at the same place in my life at once and I've found that in the end it really comes down to what your V-card means to you. Do you really want to lose it to someone who has NO emotional connection towards you? If that doesn't matter, can you live with the stigma of having been with a hooker? (In the US a lot of people frown upon this)

    • It meant a great deal to me to have emotional attachment for my first time but guess what I'm 24 and have been lied to and rejected and I have never even had a date or a first kiss. So I think it's safe to say I will never experience that seeing as you have no idea what it's like. As for the hooker thing I'll just lie and say it was at a party, I was drunk she was drunk and nobody will ever know.

    • So go on a date! Talk to some girls, get their numbers, and have some fun. Besides, what have you got to lose? You'll get some rejection but realize that it happens to everyone. If you never try, you'll never know what could have been, but if you do try and spread your wings maybe one day you'll fly!

    • I've tried online dating, speed dating, introductions and have spent far more money trying to get dates over the last 6 years then what a prostitute costs in my area. Well news flash nice guys don't get dates not a single one, hence I'm looking at getting prostitute to get over my feelings and emotions on this matter so that I can be detached just like all the other a holes who get laid and girlfriends because of it.

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  • It doesn't take a prostitute to get what you might be looking for... If all you want to do is get rid of the "Virgin" title, then all you need to do is get out of the mindstate that keeps the rest of your body in the metaphoric prison that is virginity... getting a prostitute isn't going to do anything but get rid of the title... the only difference will be that you've had sex... you won't learn anything about how to do it again, there's nothing of value that you could re-apply in the real world. all you'll know how to do is pay for sex, which in a sense won't change. but paying directly for someone to ride the rod isn't nearly as rewarding as indirectly paying for the company that you can still lay around with and have a fun time with after the fact.

    • You should learn to read, I already went to the prostitute 4 months ago.

  • Absolutely bud! Go for it! It’s a hugely fulfilling and confidence-boosting experience.

  • Nothing wrong man

  • Dude, you convinced me. I'm 21 and still a virgin. I'll be losing it for 80$ Soon...mmm..funny just writing this part makes me feel relieved.

    My story. I promised myself I was going to hire one if I was still a virgin at 18. When I turned 18, I changed my mind thinking maybe I will find someone special (fairy tale bullsh..t). After 3 years of trial and error; I learned how to flirt...so good that I was attracting girls. I spent close to 800$ (including tips and bills at restaurants, sport equipment to spend time with them, transport to see them) over these years on some girls. I got the kiss, I got a BJ (once) and the relationship (no sex) proposal after 3 to 5 months each time. But after the 3 to 5 months I spent on girls trying my hardest each time to get sex. After all that time the only thing I got convinced is that girls Nowadays are really too High maintenance.

    For god sake. My own brother loss it with a girl he though was normal (turns out she was an escort). Now they both hang out once in while. I've talked to her and frankly I've never ever EVER! felt so at ease talking to a girl (It Scared me to the CORE/GUT). Her natural body odor was so sweet and powerful she could easily turn a Gay man Straight. Her voice was so cheerful it made the other girls I met in my life look like Unhappy STUCK UP's. The way she dressed made her look so Sharp, I said DAMN! she's hawt! Barely naked you would think. In your dreams. She had clothes on and it looked expensive.

    I immediately thought If you have friends I want to get to know one of them.

    This was my last post as a Virgin guy.

    • I feel relieved. Never felt this kind of confidence before. The moment I entered the apartment, the girl found the words to make me feel comfortable. I told her only at the end that I wasn't a virgin anymore. She was going back and forth between the bathroom and the bedroom. She told me to wait while she went to the bathroom. 20 second after she came out without her undies. She dropped the shirt and the bra and told me to pay. I did. She then told me to undress and it was on!.

    • Funny that I had to pay up to 800$ on girls who made me feel violated to really appreciate a girl I paid 80$ and left me feeling like a STUD. I left the apartment thinking the same thing as the Question Asker said: follow what feels right not what girls tell you. As a former virgin. I can say as a guy that Virginity really is overrated.

    • For what it's worth I wish you the best and hope that my updates helped you in some way.

  • Gee, thanks for the insults-- you basically generalized all women as sluts who have no care for another soul.

    I am female.

    I am in my early 20's.

    I am a virgin.

    I am waiting until marriage.

    I would prefer my man to do the same.

    • So first off you didn't read, you just assumed then jumped into your little rant. What I said was very clear "since most girls aren't virgins anywhere near my age" Secondly you being an exception changes absolutely nothing about women in general or the majority and it certainly doesn't change a persons personal experiences.

  • 26 years old & still a virgin, sure in the hell not giving my virginity to a prostitute.

    • Not sure if you're lucky or unlucky then, but if you were a guy you'd automatically be written off by women as a loser, or a freak with something wrong with them who can't even satisfy them in bed. Girls have a lot of expectations from a guy that don't apply to them.

    • If I was a guy, I wouldn't give a sh*t what others thought of me & I'd be just as proud of my virginity. Men care way too much about what others think of them, it's ridiculous.

    • Would would care, especially when girls reject and dump you for being one with no experience, and tell you to your face that your virginity is worthless because they don't give a sh*t. Then feed you the past is the past BS liner to make up for sleeping around and you as the virgin have to accept it.

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  • DONT F**KING DO IT!

    • Why not? I already know girls hate nice guys, they hate someone like me even more evident by my situation and I know my virginity means nothing to them as most have already had plenty of sexual experiences by my age. So what's your reason why I shouldn't get to experience sex and intimacy?

    • At least pay attention to some of the answers already given. Girls do not hate nice guys. They hate boring guys.

    • Belgie I've found actions speak louder then words, and what girls say and what they do differ greatly.

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