Guys, do you like kinky or down to earth?

The true answer is "kinky for me", so that means every guy likes a girl who enjoys sex and feels completely uninhibited and willing to try whatever when they are with them, but they wouldn't want to get serious with a girl who comes off too trashy (the don't want to think you've ever done *that* before). We like a girl who is open to the idea of whipping cream or who might get a little verbal during sex, or trying unique places like the beach, but save the leather and latex for when you're seriously bored with sex (like in your 50's lol). Ultimately your first few times together should be more "Mandy Moore" and less "Paris Hilton".

I like a bit of both. If its always down to earth then it can get boring and if its always kinky your wondering how far this goes and what else can happen which could ruin the relationship. As in life you need to have a happy middle. But its fun to spice it up once in a while.

Kinky really rocks !

Down to earth is nice, any sex is nice . But kinky means a lot more fun and excitement . ;-)

Kinky

Kinky... but to talk to want to be down to earth and not grabbing my crotch 24/7.

Doesn't make any difference to me. Whatever turns the girls on.

Kinky but it has to be the right kind of kinky all types of guys like different types of kinky stuff.. It depends on the guy and what he's into...Some are into things that aren't thought to be a normal kinky things to a girl, in fact if some told you what they really like you'd probably never believe them anyhow, or that they could like such things...

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Id say... a bit of both... kinky sounds fun tho... every guy is different.

I would say down to earth at first kinky later. But for sure both, just one is boring.

I don't mind either. I like that passionate sex and I love the kinky stuff too. if you are trying to figure out how you should be maybe think about this: if you pretend to like something you are not into you either have to keep up your lie or admit to it. I personally am just myself and if a girl doesn't like it then I guess I'm out.

I think you'll find that each guy is different. A safe way would be to be down to earth, but willing to be kinky at times. Some guys are all about kinky and they tend to be easy to spot, so that's not really a problem. However, keeping things interesting and exciting is a big part of it. What you want is important too and if you're not big into being kinky then just do something every so often when it feels like thing are getting slow.

The answer is yes. Each in its own time.

I think its fun to do both. Variety makes it more fun.

The answer is always both... You have to expieriment and get creative so being kinky is a huge plus, but I think at first you want to get to know a persons body on a much more sensual way, Touch every inch and take it slow... But in every relationship unless both people are very conservative... Soft and sweet gets boring, so you have to be able to get a little crazy every once in a while.

On that note I do agree with Crazy Ace because a girl who from the start is just wild it makes things completely about sex... For the first time with a new relationship, be cute and confident, cute makes it real and sweet but the confidence shows you know what your doing and there is potential...

Depending on what kind of guy you have it differs. I would take a mesh of both, a down to earth girl with a kinky side who is into me.

Me? I don't take kinky girls serious, so for sex that's fine, but I would only date a down to earth girl.