Blow job boyfriend

OK. You love the fact that you're best friends and cam=n tell each other anything. That being true you have to hear the good and the bad and still be glad that because you can do so you have a stronger relationship. As to whether a blowjob or vaginal penetration is more personal is a matter of opinion. Either way I'm sure if you were to give him a blowjob it would be because you love him so how do you know that he didn't receive one because they loved each other at the time. If he did the unthinkable and received a bj fro pleasure alone then can you really say you've never masturbated? I also noticed you referred to one not being as bad as the other. So if you're referring to them both being sinful then you're right, and since one sin is as bad as another and you're not sin free how about you accept him as human and move on with him and keep the great relationship that you have.

Wow I understand how you feel. That is about as personal and intimate as a person can get with the opposite sex. going down on them because it involves our face and out mouth being right there on their sex. I can't imagine why he told you that because there wasn't any need. I just don't get it where people in relationships feel that it's ok to tell their current boyfriend of girlfriend something they did with their ex's or other ppl. That's so best left unsaid. Maybe he thought he was being honest with you and never gave it a thought what you might feel or think knowing that. I don't know if he was a virgin and if he was I hope that was the only thing he did for your sake. If he wasn't and you knew that, then I guess he had a right to think that you'd been aware that he had done a few thing before he met you because you weren't a virgin either. But as it stands right now, don't panic until you hear the rest of his story regarding that. He may be really sorry and it might have been an act that really didn't mean anything to him except just getting off or I dunno. That just happens to be one of the problems with people having multiple partners. He may have learned from that and that's why he's been that perfect, sweet, funny and sensitive boyfriend that also loves you so much. If everything else is as great as you say and if he says he's sorry and apologizes to you for what he said, maybe in a little time that will drift away from the front of your mind to where you can deal with it much better than you are now. But try to stop thinking of that because it really has nothing to do with your relationship where he has been so faithful and loyal to you and your best friend ever. Think of all those good things instead.

dont worry. I been through hell and back. it could be worse, what happened if he told you he had sex with you when you were going out? That killed me = ( from my ex gf

To most people; a bj is not a big deal, but if its a big deal to you; tell him. You guys have to be on the same wave length, but don't let it bother you so much. You could ruin a good thing.

To him he's probably crushed you had sex. If you really like this guy, you have to look past those things, as he looks past your things. Sure the circumstances were different, but hey, you're different people.

if you really like him I think you will be able to work that out with him


i went through the same thing with my ex because he had done everything with his ex and I hadnt to say the least


we worked things out, I had to except him and the things he did, our 5 month is in 7 days

This is a silly thing to worry about. When you're older you will laugh about it. Try to get to that point sooner, rather than later, so you don't mess up what sounds like a good thing.

If you are serious about him he will get past the fact you are not a virgin and you will get past the fact he had a blow job. Once that happens your present and future will be much brighter.