How to with a virgin?

My advice is to take it very slowly. Listen to what she tells you and pay attention to her body and facial expressions. If she tenses up a lot or looks like she is in pain, slow down immediately. The guy I was with for my first time was very careful and kept asking me if we wanted to continue and if he was going too fast or too hard. Even though it hurt at first, it got better after a bit because he was gentle and careful, so I was able to end up enjoying myself a lot after the initial pain.

I will always appreciate that he was so concerned about how I felt, it really made a difference.

Ohh that's so sweet you are asking this question :]
I am a virgin, staying one till my wedding day!
thats so cute though !

When I lost my virginity we planned it ahead. Or I guess I did. Anyway I made sure to get a nice buzz going. I recommend Sake since it is an aphrodisiac, that's what I drank and I didn't really feel as much pain as I thought I would.

I was a virgin up until this last summer. I didn't bleed and he wasn't gentle. But I wish he has been gentle, because it hurt for a couple days after. I agree with shanekokayne start with four play, it stretches her out and makes you go in easier. But you also have to be aware of how she responds, whatever she says...DO IT, if she says slow down, slow way down, if she says its too much then stop and stick with four play until she is ready. Its not just about the pain its about her emotional feelings on sex. It all depends on what type of woman you are with.

Suck. finger( lightly and carefully and gently) and let her cum at least once or twice and then slide inside her SLOWLY!!! Too fast and she might get raw inside and fear to do it again. So take it nice and slow and you'll do fine.

My girlfriend is a virgin, We've talked about it all, she talks to her mom about such things and has heard the suggestion of some alcohol, (a little buzz, not shitfaced), and perhaps an aspirin or other painkiller.

Another general suggestion is be slow and gentle :p