Still a Virgin, is it weird?

If your waiting don't settle for a non-virgin, after all this sacrifice and lose it to girl who had her fun, not fair. If you wanna get some action, don't respect women. Be a funny, perverted, smart ass. When I act that way girls straight up ask me for sex, sadly I'm still in your boat, because I wanna lose it with a virgin.

Don't worry about it at all. For sure you're not the only one in this small town. When everyone knows everything about everyone, people behave a little better and think twice before starting an affair, that's all. Maybe that's a better way to live than most people embrace in the sinful city.

Do what you want to do. There are no rules. It's perfectly normal. Also, no one has to know you are a virgin if you don't want them to. You can always say that you don't kiss and tell.

You are probably still a virgin because A. you want to be, and B. because you show women respect and don't try to pressure them.

When I was a young girl, guys were always trying to seduce me. Honestly, the ones that tried the hardest got the furthest. Obviously those who did not pursue me didn't get to do anything with me. Why? Girls generally are not the initiators of sexual encounters at that age. It's the guys.

Be careful if you do decide to do something, use protection and make sure you are honest with your partner about both of your intentions. Communication is key.

no its not weird i think its sexy it shows how much respect you have for women (ladys) and i find it so sexy !

Why don't you just like not care what everyone does and is saying? You are your own person right? Then why act like the other people are you? I wouldn't ever want to have sex with some guy who is a perverted, smartass immature bastard. Even if he was the last man standing on Earth and it was up to to reproduce.

Be true to yourself with what YOU want. Not what other people think you should want and do. Because that what you should do could have you regretting a lot of things.

I'm still a virgin and I am damn proud to be one. I've had so many chances not to be one but that isn't what I want and I don't care if my face is shoved in the ground for it because the people who would be shoving my face into the ground are the true cowards. They're all just scared to be themselves.

Do what you want and what is truly right.

I have dignity, morals and my mom tought me to be super independent. I enjoy being this person more than anything.

So again, do what is best for you.

Aww! I think that is sweet. Who cares what the little 16 year olds think. I think it takes a real man these days to wait and find the right girl instead of just going out and doing the next girl they can find. If you are worried about what people may say about you then just don't tell them. I mean, your sex life is none of their business anyways. If you find a girl that it seems right to do that with then make your move. But make sure it is the right girl because you may regret it years later.

well its not weird at all not only for girls but also boys to be virgin.Don t listen to what other people think about you .This must be the same when your tring to find your girlfriend or wife in future.Are you gonna to listen to peoples idea and lose the girl that you really like her!?Well I don t think so.

k it is definitley not weird to still be a virgin.it shows how respectful you are to girls and how much you value having a strong relationship rather then have sex and break up the next day.i would seriously wait until marriage becuz then you will know who you truly love and therefore you will know that ur love is true and that you are having sex with the person you love not with just another girl! make it worth the wait. date only pure girls so that you and the girl have a healthy relationship and that nothing gets weird between you two. seriously stay a virgin till marriage and stay pure to yourself and to girl that are also pure. it shows respect and girls will always value that in a relationship respect. it will be so worth it if you stay pure till marriage I guarantee it! let me know what you think?
Love always,
XOXO,
Lynette <3

i know several guys in college who are still virgins. maybe you only date "pure" girls, which is an old-fashioned notion, and therefore those girls don't want to get sexual with you. My friend is 19 and a virgin. He's considered attractive, but he's very judgmental of girls who are not virgins, and will only date someone he considers "perfect". Then when that "perfect" girl came along he scared her away by sending her a lot of creepy texts asking what she was wearing.

In all honesty, I think you should wait for someone special. You know what they say! You will ALWAYS remember your first.

Do you really want to look back on your first time having sex .with an easy girl who you don't even know all that well?! Like really now! It should be special :D!

Those 16 year old boys may be just lying about their non-virginess. or. lost it to that $5 hooker at the street corner :T. But hey, I suppose if you're desperate enough and lack dignity, you can go that route as well.

If you're weird, I'm from-another-planet weird lol.

I am a 17-year-old virgin. If people are laughing at you they can shut the heck up because there is absolutely NOTHING wrong with you! Don't just lose it to some random girl just for the sake of losing it. I can say as a virgin girl that I would LOVE having a virgin boyfriend, so I'm sure there are other girls that feel the same way. Wait for the right time!

I have only had 2 boyfriends in the entire course of my life, and they were both virgins; it was something that we had in common. It was great because they both cherished my virginity. They never made me feel weird about it at all. THAT is the kind of GIRL you want.

Besides, I've heard that once you start having sex, it's a lot harder to stop. So if you postpone getting started.it will be a lot easier to keep it under control!

Good luck! : )

no its not

i was in the same boat as you were.the stars never aligned for me.but no way in hell would I bring myself to going out and picking up some random. hold out for a bit more bud.uve 'lasted' 18 years I think ull be able to last a bit longer.i know its tough but keep up the nice guy routine and ull find ur miss right.or at least ur miss right now ;)

Um I wouldn't really worry about it I'm 16 and I actually look down on the people that have already had sex. UR IN HS KEEP IT IN YOUR PANTS.yeah have fun but do you seriously want to have to go through college worrying about trying to pay the babysitter? yeah condoms ain't fool proof and girls don't take the pill regularly always

Its hard to find virgin girls, You might want to find a girl who is a romantic kind of girl, who is loyal and hasn't slept around alot. She doesn't have to be a virgin just someone with good morals and qualities which you really connect to, after all guys being virgins isn't as hard as it goes for girls there is no pain all it is is lack of experience which you can build fast I'm sure, find the one guy kinda girl and rejoice in your sexuality have fun but not with a skank.

well I'm still a virgin . its not weird at all . and I am 18 now !
i mean its not a race who is losing virginity first . it shud be with someone special
but if you still think its weird, then you can just go to a club or sth and find a girl and do it
it'd be weird if ur virgin wen ur like 30 but def not now!
so don't worry ! and best of luck with wutever you decide !

Nice guys finish last. Girls your age aren't usually attracted to them. Go out and go for it if you don't want to be a virgin anymore. If you do, screw what anyone else thinks. best of luck.