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Blow job questions?

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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)     When: 11 months ago
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tomorrow,
im going to give a blowjob for the first time.
and I'm like real nervous! aha.
buttt I've read like all the different action/techniques things
like messing with the balls, and the head, and licking the shaft, and what not butttttt like what order do you go in?
gahh, please give me deeeetails about how to give a blowjob!

and like, when taking his pants off. how should I go about doing that? do I take his boxers off with his pants or leave them on?
how can I do this without feeling kind of awkward about going down on him and taking his pants off.

tips and info pleease!
and also, I'm down with swallowing. but will he still like want to kiss after or no?

sorrrry, I'm so clueless ahha.


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Seenthatmovietoo
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Seenthatmovietoo      When: 11 months ago
Aaaah Poor Thing, don't be concerned. You can't really do it wrong. Just go slow, use your tongue for licking and your lips for kissing and watch the teeth on the delicious deep down tonsil tickling strokes. Everything else will be fine.

The deal is to have a great overall experience so go slow. Enjoy yourself. Don't sweat the order of events so much as smile often and have a good time regardless of which order you take to please him. I don't return the favor the same way every time either. Variety is the spice as they say.

The best way to undress him is to get topless yourself but leave 'some' garment on until he's ready to disrobe you more fully. And then start removing one of his garments at a time. When there's nothing left to impede your progress then start with a sweet kiss and just do what sounds like fun and listen for feedback clues. He's not going to complain.

"There's good and there's better but there's no such thing as a BAD blowjob"

Good luck and have fun enjoying yourselves.
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That-guyx123
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That-guyx123      When: 11 months ago
You'll be fine.if he's not enjoying himself he should tell you what he wants. And he will find it extremely hot if you take off hit pants and boxers.don't worry about it.

And yes, he will still want to kiss you. You might want some water close by to wash it down though ;)
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DixieGirl2406
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DixieGirl2406      When: 11 months ago
My boyfriend almost always pull me in for a kiss after I swallow his load. Some guys like to be snowballed, but don't do that unless you ask him. It really doesn't matter what order you do it in. Don't spend too much time with the head though. You can overstimulate it (like a clit). I know sometimes for my Boyfriend it gets to him too much if I spend a little extra time with the head. Pant wise, my boy usually helps me. And if we're in bed together, he'll usually just have his boxers on. But if he's wearing pants, I think it's hot to take the pants off first and then rub around his dick with his boxers still on. I like the put my hand through the boxer hole =) I don't play his balls too much cause I'm always afraid I'm gonna hurt him. But he says he has balls of steel so I've been playing with them more. But like I said, it really doesn't matter the order. If you play with the shaft for a little bit and don't even touch the head, it will get all big and engorged with more blood and then it becomes even more sensitive. I like doing that too. Always drives him nuts. Deep throating is fun too. But if you're afraid you'll gag since it's your first one, you might want to practice on something first. And when you do go to deep throat, don't think about NOT gagging. The more you concentrate on trying not to gag, the more likely you are of gagging. Good luck =)
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4u2nv
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4u2nv      When: 11 months ago
just put your lips around yeah
it should be natural.
if not, then you're not ready.
I don't allow guys to come on me.
I just stop haha.
and run my tongue all the way up his bod to his sweet lips and make out with him
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Linds
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Linds      When: 11 months ago
There is no specific order because you absolutely have to switch it up. If you follow the same order and pattern each time, as exciting as oral sex is for a man, it will get monotonous and mundane. It is clear you have researched techniques. . .now it is up to you to apply them and to make this unique to you as opposed to following another girls directions.

In order to get his pants off in a smooth fashion:

1.) You shouldn't be too overly concerned about how the pants will come off. Trust me, he's not worried. They'll come off when they come off and how they come off. Chances are good that he'll do it himself anyway once he realizes that that is your goal.

2.) You need to gently rub and massage his thighs and his groin so that he is aware of your intentions. Do this through his pants as to build a little bit of tension.

3.) You may slide your hand down his pants, OVER HIS BOXERS, to get to the next level and to make the touching just a little bit more intimate. He should be excited by this time. Perhaps if he is experienced he will ask if you'd like him to take his pants off. This has happened on more than one occasion to me. Sometimes I say, "Sure," and other times I say, "The pants will come off when I say they come off," just to tease him :)

4.) The point has now come where you need to decide if you will
a. Put your hand underneath his boxers with his pants still on or
b. Take his pants off and continue rubbing him through his boxers
I say this because you don't want to take too many steps at once.

5.) Whichever step you choose, the ultimate goal is to clearly have both his pants and his underwear removed for easy access. It is possible to perform oral sex without removing these articles of clothing, and to simply unbutton and unzip the pants, but I'm assuming this isn't what you'd like to do based on your question.

Make sure you take this in steps as to not jump from completely dressed to completely naked. Let him get comfortable through these different stages so that he's not all of a sudden nude in front of you with no build-up getting him excited.
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Anonymous User      When: 11 months ago
First of all, don't be nervous. I promise it will be awkward! First start licking and sucking the tip for a few seconds. Don't like the balls yet! Save that for later on! Haha, there is a piece of skin on the underneath part of the tip which is really sensitive. My guy loves it when I lick and suck it. Don't do it for too long because like I said it's really sensitive. Don't be nervous and just keep switching it up. Not too fast though! Hope that helped.
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