Hes probably just afraid that he's inexperienced and wouldn't be able to do it right. Also trying to force him will only make him pull away more ;-) Just relax a bit hun and try and work you way into it.
Maybe try mutual masturbation or ask him to finger you and then ask in the middle of it if he would try and go in.
Like some other commenters said he could also possibly just be more comfortable with waiting.
your boyfriend is a flaming homosexual if he does not want to have sex with you...even after a year and a half? goodness gracious! is he sexually active yet? he should be at 16. you seem like a beautiful girl, judging from that thumbnail pic if it's you, so that can't be the case... Try giving him back rubs/massages, and get really intimate with him... it seems you're probably the more dominant one in the relationship, so go ahead and be more aggressive in the bedroom. I bet if you gave him a sexy private strip-tease, he'll definitely be hugely turned on... and sorry to be so blunt but start by giving him a BLOWJOB... he will love it and that's the best way to show your man appreciation... or, if he is a virgin, in this case he might want to wait. and that is definitely respectful if he's just not ready... if you truly love him then you would respect his decision to wait... but then again, I lost my virginity at 14, so his pansy ass should be ready... and if not, I can give you my number and I myself will make you HAPPY. ;-) hope this helps... take it easy
Lol dont get me wrong we have messed around..and have done everything but sex..i ask him why and he says he doesn't want me to get pregnant..and his thing is he wants to make it in football and doesn't want to screw anything up..and he does believe in his religion.and its no sex before marriage.but I don't get..we have don't EVERYTHING, but sex...so then he isn't all the religous..huh?? and I try and do everything I can with him.and he always says no...and I do respect him, because I'm still - 11 months ago
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Obviously with him..and I care about him sooo very much.. - 11 months ago
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Oh and another thing...he gets turned on really easy,, that's not a problem.. - 11 months ago
He could have moral issues with it. And the fact that you're older makes him feel like he's not in control of the situation. He doesn't want to feel like he's made a mistake, perhaps.
To be perfectly honest, though, When I saw his picture, the Gaydar did peak a little.
he probably is just insecure because your older than him and he most likely feels like you know more. Sex at 16 good for him you just have to give him time he'll warm up to the idea
See the crazy thing bout it. is that I'm also a virgin too. but your probably right. thanks:D - More than a year ago
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Guy can be intimidated with a girl who is a step ahead of them when it comes to sex. It doesn't matter that yoru also a virgin guys usally like to think that they are leading the girls. You however are the one doing the pushing ... leading it all the same in their minds. - 2 months ago
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