Labia minora size?

I thought short till 3 girlfriends ago. OMG. I love giving oral and that really turned my opinion around so I guess it was just experience. The previous Girlfriend sadly didn't have length and I kind of missed it but my current Girlfriend surprised me with her long (3.5 cms) lips and as a multi-org squirt gal I hit gold I figure.
Back to it...I find her lab length amazingly feminine and erotic. Quivering, wet, beckoning, her length demands my attention in every way: deep sucking, licking, pulling, twisting around my finger..(yes she enjoys it). She has an extremely pronounced and responsive clit too so all is awesome there in general to satisfy my wildest oral fixations ;-) Interestingly she herself was unsure of her look down there when we first met. It's a direct result by admission of "barren" looking p*rn images and past partners who did not fully appreciate or did not express appreciation for her "endowment". I set her self image straight and she fully appreciates the goddess she is to me now in that area as much as anywhere else.
It's completely an individual thing from a guys perspective but I know what I totally like and now you do too. Go ladies, you are all beautiful.

I love a long labia minora, I think it looks sexy.

I love Big Labia Minotr , I like to lick & suck on them before intercource . Do not get them cut .
If I could , I would mary You to keep you from getting them cut .

Large labia is very sexy for Me. I love large labia.

I so like a woman who takes pride in her appearance especially in the pubic area,
it needs to nicely groomed down there and It's always a big big bonus if the woman has been circumcised and I mean complete removal of the inner labia.
It's neat, hygienic, and so much more attractive.
That is the one certain way (without fail) to catch your man.
C'mon girl you'll be beating them with a stick.

I like them long, large, stretchy, protruding, and hanging. I think they are absolutely attractive.

bigger the better! I love my wifes long beefy lips! the more they hang the better, there should be no friggen reason to cut off your beauty! it's all in yur head because I was like that with my foreskin too! now I love it, I love long labia! man its a sexy fetish! woo! stretch em lady's!

This isn't somethign I noticed that I truly had a preference for till about.. 6 years ago. I was with a girl who had extremely small labia minora ( inner) and I was completely turned off.. then it happened again with another girl. Since those 2, I was with 2 girls who were very meaty, and it was a huge turn on.
Problem is now, that's the kind of girl I want to be with. But how can you tell that to a girl in advance, Iand I don't want to sleep around so its difficult LOL

My honest opinion - out of 10 guys, 2 wouldn't care, 6 would think "meat curtains" are disgusting, and (2) would be like me

I love large labia I love to kiss and suck on them. That's make the girl crazy

i will prefer the one which my girlfriend will have...! :p

I think that lips that are large are a total turn on. Every womans' vagina is like a snowflake...no two are alike. I have somewhat of a fixation on womens vagina lips. I could look at 'em all day long (and sometimes I do). I think that they're the sexiest thing on a woman. My experience has been that women who know that their lips larger than average seem to be more sexually charged. And they also know how to pose and tease with them. My God, you women are so powerfull! I'm so glad that there's more women an the planet than men...

I'm not too concerned with it. My main focused is working on that area and giving her most pleasure possible.

Man... From my experience, women with large labia minora are more sexual than the others. Easier to turn on, easier to orgasm. Several of my friends say that too - so we pack a few tens of partners together so the statistics should mean something. Therefore - YES, bring me someone with a large package, chances are she will LOVE sex and be easier to please.

I much prefer the larger ones. Tiny labia minora, while not uncommon, look too much like a little girl's vagina.

Sometimes, if when perusing porn online, I see a vagina with no visible labia minora (what me an my friends refer to as "a simple slit") I get grossed out.

Different guys enjoy different things. Some guys will prefer the "simple slit" look.

Don't worry about what your guy thinks... Just be yourself and if he loves you, he'll appreciate you how you are. I've totally been in love with girls with a simple slit before. Don't let other people's opinions get in the way of you appreciating yourself exactly how you are.

:)

I care! The bigger the better!

Hi, misses janelov

well everyone has their own perferences, but I thinks is a bad thing, that women that do have it large do labiaplasty, which I don't get. for breast, you enhance it, for vaginal lips, you reduce. why is it that it has to be like that, because maybe when they look at magazines or the media or even nude magazine they don't see it, well I know playboy will not feature a woman with big ones, and of course,that discrimination but anywhoo, let me tell you what I think! because I'm a lover of the cooch! not because the small size, because of the larger labia minora. I just think, they are beautiful, it enhances penetration for me, now they have a lot of misconception for women and men, I'm not sure why women don't know, but from my experience most women don't know their own body, especially downstairs. having a large, or spongy.or thin longs ones versus the small ones or non existent ones, I thought before I did my research, that it had to do, with more sexual activity and as you get older, it gets longer or bigger. wrong! When a woman goes thru her puberty stage starting as early as 11 or 12, their body changes. and the changes occur with the pubic hair and the increase in the breast area and vaginal lips inner and outer! now, most women are undeveloped, but most women don't know and men, so they misconcept the idea of how a woman should be, its either developed meaning, large lips,thin , long or spongy or not, and that's what a woman will have until she dies, it doesn't shrink or get better unless you play with it, and for most women, the ones that are active sexually and explore found ways to enlargen it, but first you got to have a certain size to enlargen it, if you have tiny to non existent, your chance to increase the size is slim! so, here is the catch. for men, that love to go down, they love the bigger ones, the ones that dont, like the small ones, because, they don't like giving anyways, and there are the small tiny percentage, that really don't care. soo the critics will be if they love to go down and orally please! its that simple, if a man likes it big or not, I talked to many men, from both sides! I hope this can help!

women has different labia minoras and clitoris! small or big, but from research and surveys being done, most women are not fully developed. the bigger the more its developed but still functions the same, now. there are men, that love it or hate it, and there are men, that really don't care for it, the men that love it, love to go down, the men that hate it, really don't like to go down, and the other half, really don't care, and not too sure. So younger men have are less knowledgeable about a women's size and assume myths about sizes and think, if its long or stretchy that she has been abused, and that's false, but someone that doesn't likes smaller sizes, really doesn't care to find out the truth versus the myth, so its really in the eye of the beholder, I forgot to add, men as they get older notice a beauty with women with larger labia minora! I'm 28, and I love it, and want to find my wife with one! its just better overall with the whole sexual experience. I know it, and I experience it from the others! there is more I want to say, but I stop here.

Large. Bigger the better. I have had all sizes and shapes in my 40 years. Personally, I prefer those that are puffy with a good "angle of the dangle". My wife's are average (a slight disappointment when I first got a good look, but her beautiful naturally elongated nipples made up for it! ), and by average, I mean the minora protrude slightly past the majora about 5 to 8 millimeters. Also, when aroused, they engorge and fatten up a little and naturally begin to protrude a little more (up to a centimeter or so total) and are easier to suck on (which is great for both of us). I often try to get them bigger by sucking, pulling and tugging (gently and with love, of course! ), and they do elongate somewhat, but unfortunately, they always go back to their original size. I cruise the large labia fetish sites now and then and get my thrills there, but overall, I am very happy with my wife's and would never trade her in for a bigger "meaty taco". Besides, as I mentioned earlier, her nipples beat ANYONE's hands down. They naturally are about 25millimeters long and as big around as a dime. That is not including her aureolas (aureolai? ), which are nice too. They are sometimes (depending on temperature and/or arousal level) as large as 3. 5 inches across. We have been married for 7 years as of the 10th and honestly, when I first got to see her nipples sans bra, I thought. This may be the one. Just kidding, I knew she was "the one" after we had spent the last 3 years getting to know each other as best friends, but her nipples pushed me over the edge. The deal sealer was her oral talent. I have never had a bad bj. All bj's are good and they should be more liberally handed out, but of course, some are better than others, and she is (by FAR! ) the best. Before her, there were about 30 others who awarded me for good behavior and NONE could compare - I even had one that could deep-throat my 7 and have enough room left over to slurp a nut in and out, but the technique was not good. Before me, she had bestowed the honor upon only 2 others, so it didn't come from practice. She learned through watching good instructional porn and reading good instructional sex technique books. Ahhhh, but I digress. Back to the labia. Yes. Big is better. When my wife gave birth to our first son (she brought a beautiful daughter to our marriage from a previous relationship), while pushing during delivery, I got very aroused because of the size and swelling of her vulva and labia. Of course, when the baby's head was crowning, I lost the arousal and started falling in love with my baby, but before that, I almost asked the nurse to "give us a minute". Just kidding, but it was a nice sight to look at and I can still vividly picture the memory. Women who are upset about large labia and want to get surgical reductions, should only do so if they are PHYSICALLY uncomfortable. If you are mentally uncomfortable, then find yourself a man (plenty out there) who worship big!

Large or small...hanging or not...I love them all.

Don't matter. I'm not gonna look, and I'm not gonna ask. Just wanna cum.

I really like a really small labia. There's just something about that nice clamshell that I really like.

Must be a guy thing.....'cause I don't give a damn about the size either! Just happy getting downtown and working my "magic" lol

No dude will ever care

It's really not an issue

I would say I like it shorter, but I have met guys who said they liked it larger. Like sexwiseman I never paid attention to it or gave a damn (I still don't really, truth be told) until a woman pointed it out to me. I don't know about surgery though, I think there are natural exercises that women can do to enhance tightness, called Kegel exercises (google or wikipedia it)

Funny you asked... I have never ever really noticed the difference in sizes of the labias, so I guess from my perspective, I don't give a damn about that...

i have a very small sized labia minora and infact I love those long ones which hang out of the outer surrounding... I have tried lots of things to make it a bit longer... I tried to keep it pulled down also I told my boyfriend to suck it (which has helped a bit).. according to me it ones personal choice...
thank you

I have large labia and did not think much about it until a sexual partner told me when I was a teen. I was embarrassed and saw in most p*rn movies and mags they all seemed to be small and perfect looking. I have slept with a few guys who don't really care and others who say that they are beautiful.. Never the less I think each to there own you get sum who like, don't and those that don't give a sh*t. Well for me I love having sex and always have loved it. If they don't like me down there then they can go have a hard one.. hahahaha

eh y do guys care so much I have a medium size one and my mbf says its great he sed he likes it tht way guys y do you care? gawd would you rather have a girl with small lips tht loves sex and is easy to turn on and orgasm and evrything or a girl with huuggee lips tht cnt do nething like tht. :p

i have a very small clit and small inner labia, but my outer labia is very puffy. my husband finds it a total turn on. I have yoyo'd with my weight over the years but that has remained the same. sometimes I could just lay there and pretend to be asleep naked, and have found him directly above it gazing lustily at it,:) and he always likes to initial oral on me! yay! whatever your size is just be comfortable with yourself and confident and that is always super sexy to a man!

I happen to have a very large labia minora and clitoris. I have never seen anyone else with large one. My mom said as a child they were large. I'm nervous. My fiance' and I are virgins and he isn't familiar with vulva's besides on movies. I think mine is ugly. I joke that if I were a man I would have a very large penis. In a normal state it is about 1 in. long; if stretched about 2 in. long and 1 in. wide. How can I help my fiance' to understand what to expect before our wedding night, without showing him mine?

I think maybe some shallow guys care too much about how a girls p**** looks like. But to be honest, if you love someone, do you really care about how her p**** or his penis looks like?
No, you don't
I have large labia, and I don't mind my boyfriend going down on me at all ! If I give him a bj, I of course would want a favor back ;)

I myself Have as some people call it "Large Lips". I am sexually uncomfortable showing my partner my vagina. We have not yet proceeded oral sex because of this. I am very embarrassed of it and what he may say. I know he loves me and he tells me all the time he will love me no matter what it may look like, however I'm uncomfortable...Any tips?
-LL

I think no guy will ever care!
they are just happy they can be that "close".