Do you finger your gal's butt? Or if you are a woman, do you like it?

My girlfriend gets off on it. But we make sure she takes a long shower & cleans out thoroughly so we're minimizing the bacterial nasties.

i enjoy doing that!

Make sure its clean first and there won't be any issues of hygiene. If he is willing to play with that area he is turned on by you and very comfortable with you.

sounds like he's trying new things. Seeing how you react? My Girlfriend is NOT interested in anal. Not a bit. She had a previous experience, out of curiosity, and got no pleasure out of it. But her numnutz boyfriend at the time, didn't even bother using lubricant, so no wonder.
Dirty talk, if done right, seems to be a turn on to some women, as well.

I agree with Preacherman. I would add that some who have said they don't like it, at first, end up going wild and and really getting off with it when they try it. Others, it's like, dude, you die if you even think about touching me there or even think about it . I will know lol. It's sometime hard, because it borders onto that area where a lot of women like to be controlled, told what to do, dominated etc. A surprising number that never tried it, or were resistant, ended up loving it. It seemed to me that the most submissive ones were the most likely to like it, especially when they were instructed to make it available or commanded . that kinda thing. One of the issues, though, is fit. I don't like hurting her and am pretty thick, so some who wanted to try it, I backed off, after not fitting, and substituted a finger.
If I were your guy, I'd totally back off, though, based on what you said. But, it is common and a lot more desired than I ever thought. And, I could care less, for me. I was always into pleasing her.

That sort of behavior is fairly common among people who enjoy giving women pleasure. You might want to talk to him about what you like and don't care for but I would be careful about lowering the boom on him. He was likely trying really hard to show you a good time. Anal play can lead to remarkably powerful orgasms and assuming you bathe frequently, the anus is more hygienic than say your mouth or hands.

From my experience, it is different for all girls. Some of them really get off on it, some are nervous about it and some hate it. There is no yes/no to the answer. Its different with each new girl. I had one girlfriend who could only O through some sort of double penetration. Others don't even need penetration to O. You guys are all different.

It should be okay as long as he's a strict handwasher.

Note to dudes: He likes her body, he acts like it, it goes well. See?

i personally don't like it.

i like anal, it feels good to me.

im like you, I've never really wanted to do the whole anal thing, it grosses me out. the other day my boyfriend kept trying to touch me there and I kept saying no. he tried again and I just went with it, and it didn't feel bad. I mean, I felt really weird because of the actual act, but I didn't mind it, it actually felt kind of good. the perineum area is really sensitive and packed with nerves so having a guy touch you there feels really good

it sounds to me like you kind of want to try but you're afraid its gross. I say just work your way up to it if you're comfortable enough with your boyfriend, and see what happens

ask him to put a condom on ur finger so you feel that it is more hygienic. and tell him ur not comfortable with it. ask to find an alternative. whilst I don't like anal I wouldn't mind a finger or spanking.

I do not like it at all! I feel the same way you do about it, that is an exit hole only.

I absolutely love it. My guy knows it and he does it for me all the time! Of course we're all different though :) I suppose it isn't for everyone.