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How to help my girlfriend on her period.

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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)     When: Over a year ago
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My girlfriend is very bold about herself so I don't have to guess about her period. One day she wasn't feeling to well and I asked her what's wrong and she was having her period, that she didn't care who she told anymore. I gave her a back massage.

So, girls, are you open about your period to your boyfriends? What do they do to help you? I'm thinking about giving my girlfriend a belly massage next time but I'll have to ask her before I just rubbing her belly.


Update: The other day I was rubbing my gf's belly on the couch, because she was having her period. She was wearing a t-shirt and sweatpants. Her eyes were closed as if she were asleep.    Over a year ago

Update: (Cont) Just to see what would happen, I moved my hand lower and lower to her waistline gradually as I rubbed her belly. She started moaning lightly as I went lower. I dipped my hand beneath her sweatpants to find she was only wearing panties.    Over a year ago

Update: (Cont) I slipped my hand beneath her panties, abandoning the belly rub. I traced her lips with my finger and could feel she wasn't as wet as she neede to be. (This the first time I attempted to finger my gf.) I found her clit and played with it.    Over a year ago

Update: (Cont) She began moaning louder through all this. I layed on the couch and her next to me nearest the edge, with her head by chest. After about two mintues of playing with her clit she started moaning louder and came.    Over a year ago

Update: I know she did because she let a sort of hiss to let me know not to touch her clit anymore. She then fell asleep and then I fell asleep. We awoke Sat. (my parents were away. and I'm 18, presses wrong button when registering.) She had been awake for awhile    Over a year ago

Update: I asked her about it. It was hot I could get my girlfriend off but I felt I took advantage of her. I asked her, 'Do you remember last night?' 'Yeah' 'No,what I did with you.'"Oh, that. Where did you learn that?" "I just know things." She laughed.    Over a year ago

Update: (Cont) She said with a smile,"That felt great." "You didn't care?" "You know I get horny on my period. That's just what I needed." "I was just worried I took advantage of you." "Advantage?" "Yeah, for sex." " Well, I'm glad you took advantage of me then,"    Over a year ago

Update: "Your welcome. We should do it again sometime." "We should!" "This wil sound awkward, but that's the first time I ever did that to a girl. I was afraid I didn't know what I was doing. I'm happy that I have this kind of relationship with you."    Over a year ago

Update: I told her I was glad I could give her pleasure. We hugged. How's that for turning a period into something good?    Over a year ago

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  • china-blue
    1687  
    Over a year ago
    Very open, always have been. I always wanted to make sure the guy (now my husband) knew what he was getting into.I tend to get pretty horny during my period also. And I have found nothing that helps bad cramps better than a great orgasm. When you use a tampon there's no mess. And since I enjoy anal, that provides some fun too. But it's hard to beat a great cuddle/mutual masturbation session to ease the cramps and make for a great nap!

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  • fivecolours
    1427  
    Over a year ago
    I always get really horny on my period! But I don't think I would ever let my boyfriend touch me while I was on my period, I know some people do.

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    Over a year ago
    wow, when I'm on my period it isn't have as enjoyable as that, a lot of guys get weird if you mention periods.
    well done, your a good boyfriend.

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    Over a year ago
    Oh yeah I forgot about that. Sometimes that can be nice and sometimes it can make it worse, so just be sure to listen to your girl and not force it.

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    Over a year ago
    when I'm having my period either I don't want anyone touching me because I feel gross or I want to be All over my boyfriend and I'm really horny. I THink this is the case for some girls so find out where she is at before you touch her stomach but STay romantic as I can tell that you are!

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  • 4u2nv
    1663  
    Over a year ago
    Whoops and I wanted to add more to my comment, but it wouldn't let me.
    You're right about the stomach rub being intimate though because when my guy rubbed my stomach it was so romantic and cute, and it seriously gave me the butterflies (not the nervous kind, the kind that means that you are aroused!) lol. And I think that the stomach rub actually made me.might be weird to say, but it made me wet. lol

    so that's what I meant by that the "belly massage works, but not if she is cramping a lot".
    you'll be able to tell if she is having severe cramps though because she will straight out tell you, "don't touch my stomach".But if she doesn't, then the stomach rub definitely helps.

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    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      4u2nv, since you think I am sweet, can you do me a favor? I personally know the guy who needs som help on this question on the website. link Do you think you could give him some advice? It would be appreciated. Thanks once more.
    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      Ok,lol. Thanks again.
    • Answerer
      Over a year ago
      Periods, honestly make me hornier for some reason.....
      and I believe others could agree.

      I'm not sure about the whole orgasm idea, but I seriously was bout to moan when he did lol.

      It depends on if she is comfortable with you heading south, if she is and you are then you got yourself a deal
    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      Ah, I thought you had something against it, but it's him. How's he going to get dirty? It's just a little blood.
      SInce we mentioned that...
      Since a belly rub is very intimate, could something sexual end up happening? Like if my hand wanders to far south, lol. Or she could orgasm from just a stomach rub? Or does a period just wipe out all sexual pleasure?
    • Answerer
      Over a year ago
      He just doesn't want to get dirty I suppose...lol.
    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      It's not weird to say you got wet from something sexual. Maybe that's why my girlfriend liked it so much, lol. May I ask why your boyfriend can't touch you "there" if you're having your period? I don't want to make a mistake with my gf.
  • talia40
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    Over a year ago
    To be honest some girls are open but some are not. If the girl really trusts you then yeah she is obviously going to tell you. So I guess your girlfriend does trust you are a very luck young man. But hey at least you know when she as her period. Good luck.

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  • 4u2nv
    1663  
    Over a year ago
    Aww! You are so sweet!
    I am definitely open about my period, but I don't think that my boyfriend would be.
    A massage definitely helps, maybe offering her some advil too.
    Belly massage helps, but not if she is cramping a lot.

    Cuddling is definitely a must, so cuddle up with her.
    I wish my ex-bf would of helped me out.

    But massages and cuddling are a must.
    If you have a heating blanket, offer her to use it.
    Or to be romantic, you can set her up a nice bubble bath! I love bubble baths, with some rose petals or something in it. =]

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    • Answerer
      Over a year ago
      Ur welcome=] sometimes touching her stomach will make it feel better, other times the cramps are so bad that it hurts to be touched on the stomach. It depends on how severe her cramps are. But if she liked it, then that's good. I would like my stomach rubbed if I had light cramps, but not heavy ones. I try to ignore the period talk with my guy, sometimes he gets mad when I'm on my period because he cannot touch me down there lol.
    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      Thanks for the encouragement. A lot of guys I know have gfs who want to talk to them about their periods and they are repulsed by the thought of that... uh, function. I'll definitely cuddle with her now, but why wouldn't a belly massage help her if she's having cramps? I'm not going to punch her in the stomachor anything; it's just that I've kind of did it beforeand she liked it and it seems very intimate.
  • amberview
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    Over a year ago
    ouch a belly massage would hurt I think. Actually a warm compress or hot water bottle is nice and some pain releaver. A back massage would help much more than a belly massage, but then again you can ask her specifically if she would like that. Everyone is a little different.

    My periods used to hurt a lot when I was younger, they lessoned with time. I rarely talked about it with anyone except for my mother or friends.

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  • cranberygrl
    2158  
    Over a year ago
    I'm open to everyone about my period. Why wouldn't I be? Every girl gets em. And honestly, I prefer not to be "helped" while on my period as I seem to be irritable and on my own. But maybe that's just me.

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  • larry69
    12662  
    Over a year ago
    Well these are all good answers and periods should not be a taboo!

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