Actually, that could depend on gender as well, if a girl slept with a lot of guys she is considered to be a slut, but while a guy who sleeps with a lot of women is considered to be a playboy rather than a man whore.
So, it's tough to say. People definitely cross a lot of lines when it comes to that.
Personally, I think as long as you know how to practice safe sex there is no such thing as too many. I don't filter people out by the number of sexual partners they've had but I do filter them by their character.
if either you or your partner has had more than each other, then there starts to be increased risks of catching an std. therefore, more than one starts to be too many. it's not like 3 or 5 or 7 or 15! those girls will all be sluts unless you don't count the first one because of unusual circumstances. if it's more than one, then where do you draw the line? why have any limit to how many then? who makes that decision? each person has to make their own and live with that decision.
Agree that it all depends on your personal decision..but when do we draw the line and say this is to many and I'm a slut... - More than a year ago
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I think you'd know that yourself. you'd know the circumstances surrounding each time and why. you're not a slut until you think you are. it's not up to anyone else to make that decision without knowing any of the particulars. however, it seems like if you've been known to have sex with more than two, you could rightly be called one. so be careful. lol! - More than a year ago
I do agree with Lumn3, but I do believe there should be somewhat of a limit of too many. I personally think that teenagers shouldn't be with more than 2-3 active partners. Of course, adults could have up to 8(in my eyes). I mean, I have had friends who, after their first time, think that every person after that is fine to sleep with. But as long as you've done it safely it shouldn't really matter.
Well, to me, that's a personal question, I would say as few as possible because the more people means the more complicated things will be, consequences are not always directly recognizable and Long term may hurt future relationships. I'm definitely an advocate of monogamy because I feel that the guy will actually care just about me and for some other dozen number of chicks. That never really made sense to me, but w/e. It's just a disadvantage to have too many sexual partners, ie STDs and it's 'empty' if you don't get to know the person.
Too many is when it becomes unhealthy! Also, I think that if you're ashamed of the number, it's probably too many. If you're one of those shameless people who this method can't be applied to, then it's probably too many if, when you tell people, they gasp and/or don't believe you.
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