Me and my boyfriend have had sex maybe 4 times or so, and it still hurts on the way in, and sometimes he can't even get it in. So we are considering using lube, I heard water-based lube is the best to use.. can anyone tell me which is the best/ most pleasurable?
I agree that you should have waited but you prolly aren't going to stop so yes use ky or something of the sort!! Of course though the first few times are going to hurt cause your not used to it so have him finger you to loosen you up first too!!
Me and my boyfriend have had sex more than 20 times and it still hurts for me and him when he puts it in so its normal. I've heard ky is good try that.