I don't know what I'm doing?

You're worrying when you don't need to worry. When those things happen, they tend to happen naturally, without a lot of effort or planning. ( although you should be safe )

For now, just don't bother yourself with worry. When it happens, it's easier than you think.

If you accept these things as they come, then things will happen naturally. If you're not into what you are doing at the moment, then you are going to be uncomfortable. Knowledge and preparation is key here. Don't let yourself get into any situations that you are not comfortable with. Developing trust in a person who you are going to do these things with may also help you feel more comfortable in doing these things. If you don't want to kiss your boyfriend on the lips because of nervousness but still want to somehow express yourself then try kissing him on the cheek, or even hugging him tight with your faces like, pressed against each others. Take it in steps and don't let others "push the envelope" if you are not ready, you will only be questioning what had happened.

Don't rush into things. When the kiss happens you will be fine. TRUST ME! It's the most easy... relaxing and enjoyable things in the world. Especially when its with someone you care about. So when it does happen just relax and enjoy! You will know what to do. As for the sex... deff don't rush into that. No one knows what to do on their first time. The first time or first few times may be hard since you are a virgin but after awhile you will get the hang of it and become more familiar with what your partner likes. :) Don't stress it. There are no rules and no correct ways!

Don't worry about anything at all!! your chance will come eventually, I got my first kiss last year and I'm still a virgin and happy to be!!! So don't be ashamed or worried about anything at all. Your time will come.

Hey trust me don't rush things you are lucky to be so inexperienced b/c most girls out there have been having sex for along time at your age. you don't want to be just another girl some guy meets. when that right guy comes along you will be happy that you waited and I am sure that he will be happy that he is getting a virgin there are not that many out there anymore. Plz don't rush you will always remember your first so let them be special ok

It will come naturally. I had my first kiss when I was in my 20's. The guy was older and more experienced so I felt a bit insecure about that. So I took things easy and acted like it was not my first kiss. The funny thing is that after he kissed me he said that I was a great kisser and he asked me if anyone has ever told me that before. I told him that there is no one I can remember. (He does not know that he was my first)
I'm still a virgin and for that, I want to fall in love first. Don't be so afraid.

It will all come to you in time. Once you find the right person everything will come naturally and it will be easy, like its not your first time. Don't be scared or nervous be calm and comfortable. Best of luck.