Ok I have been talking to this guy for a long time and I really like him no I love him and we have been going out at night behind my moms back and I think I might be falling in love I want to be with him forever and we have been talking about having sex and I don't know how to tell him. I am scared, I want to, don't get me wrong but we are only 16 and he is so sweet he wants it to be all romantic and stuff but I'm scared I won't be all that good and it's his first time so help please.
Everyone's first time is awkward. Just don't worry so much about it. If you really want it, just go for it and be safe. And the key is relaxing in the moment.
If I was him and you, I would wait until you feel your ready. I waited and my first time was in a nice hotel room and it was awesome because I was ready. That was 11 years ago and it is still my most memorable sexual experience ever. Keep in mind that your first time will likely be something you remember forever, make it a good memory. No matter what you do, use protection.
If it is his first time you don't need to worry about being good!! You are probably his first love and he will never remember how bad it was he will just remember that it was amazing cause he was with you!!
ok as I'm reading this I'm taking it your a Virgin as well as your boyfriend ok so sorry if I'm wrong lol.
OK firstly I think its great you trust him enoough to have sex with him :D so that's the first step .woo! i would maybe step back a bit with the wanting to be with him forever thing, because you are only sixteen, and although you may very well be with him forever. It will only make it harder if you guys split up. Just make sure you totally want to have sex with him,before hand,like remember and get him to wear a condom ! keep in mind that they work 97% of the time.So what would you do if you got pregnant?,or got an STI ?. Just make sure you guys are totally ready for it :) because although it is a great next step for your relationship and its such a passionate and loving thing it can lead to some not so good things to. As for the whole being scared you won't be that good. Everyone gets that feeling! and its is first time so he won't know what to expect if you get me so more chances are if you are bad which I'm sure your not at all , he will have nothing to compare you with! I would let him know of your worries like wait till you guys are talking about doing "It" again and just say your pretty scared of how it will be and if you will be any good. tell him you want it to be the best time for both of you and want him to enjoy it. he will understand! guys are pretty relaxed that way :) . and I bet any money he will say that he still wants to have sex with you and that you won't be bad.Enjoy it take your times, don't try and rush or make things to complicated for your selfs. have a giggle and a laugh it helps make you both relax :) :)