My boyfriend has fingered me but I haven't gave him a blowjob or anything.. I'm just not ready. Does he understand that or will he dump me for always giving out but not getting really anything?
He'll be fine, sometimes guys just like to make their girl feel great plus that is in a whole another category. Blow job is like going down on you and fingering is more like hand job. He's not going to dump you, you are being silly
Well that you should ask your boyfriend, if he really loves you, then he will understand fully why you haven't given anything back and that he will be able to wait, like said before, many men get pleasure from pleasing their women, and that's true in most places, take your time on doing anything sexual to him and tell him how you feel and that you need him to wait for you, I'm sure he would understand,and if he doesn't and leaves you, then he really isn't worth it.
If he dumps you for not allowing him to do that, you shouldn't be with him to begin with. He needs to understand that there is a time and place for everything.
Just be open and honest about why you aren't wanting to.
I think that he would understand if he really cares about you. BUT If he's the kind of guy who is looking for sex, and he's not getting it from you, he will be getting it somewhere else. Just wait until you're ready.
No if he's a decent nice fella who likes you he won't care... about it he will wait till you are ready. I've been in this situation before and most of the time the pressure came from me not him!! Does he ask for you to? And if he does what does he say and act like when you say no?
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