Is this right or wrong to leave hickeys on one another?

It's good that you two have that much affection, but the hickey isn't a good thing.
For one, it's not pleasant to look at. And 2nd, it's not good for the blood vessels. A hickey is swollen blood vessels. That can be unsafe if done to excess.

Making out is great, but the hickeys should be avoided.

I personally don't mind Hickey's myself as long as they in a place that is easily covered up by a shirt or some article of clothing. I agree With april in that you don't see people walking around every day with a hickey but also keep in mind that people are doing what I just suggested in that they are covering them up by some clothing.


Hope this helps

Just use a condom.

Yeah, I really enjoyed them with my guy at first. But, my mom & dad started making comments about em' and his parents made comments about his. I'd even start getting looks by guys in my classes, like, "Oo.. What's that?" and always the people who felt forward enough to ask about em' or make comments about em'. My dad told me that they're immature, and that pretty much killed em' for me. I told my bf that they're immature and that if we do them, they should be easily hidden. I kind of miss hickeys, though. Because now, we don't do them, ever, and they DO feel good, and they DO intensify things quite a bit. Along with biting and all that sort. So, really, it's your choice. Do what you feel.

Ok, let me tell you that the same thing happened to me.

i started giving my man hickeys and he gave me them too, well when I came home my mom would be like what's that on your neck?! he does respect you if he's doin' that to you.
well I say if it feels right, or good, then go for it, the only thing I would consider is maybe doing it in a different place, like where you can't see it once you put ur clothes on.

I don't think hickeys are a big deal but I still at 21 say no hickeys so my parents don't see and they get mad about them and I'm married I guess they don't like seeing them on there little girl I see nothing wrong w/ them but I wouldn't do it just for respect for your mom.

Its perfectly fine to want to do that to one another. It feels good to both of you. Your mom doesn't like it because she thinks your probably sleeping with him, and no mom likes that. So just keep doing what your doing and you'll be alright. Peace

I don't know about it being "disrespectful", but hickeys are pretty tacky. Your mom probably sees it as him "marking his territory" or something, but really nobody really wants to see that. You don't see grownups walking around with hickeys. Because it's not a good look!

I never let any of my boyfriends give me hickeys because I didn't want anyone to have the wrong impression of me.

Your call though.