How do you turn girls on?

Dirty talk in number one on my list. But hide it in your discussions. Then make her feel unique and special with little comments and details in your language. They really love it when you notice an extreme detail about them. (ex. you do this when you smile. that's cute...) I would say the most arousing thing you can do is play with your lips, like biting or licking them. That's just great.

well personally what turns me on is...

-when my boyfriend comes and grabs my waist, from behind and then just kinda pulls me close, (that makes me wanna turn round and make out with him)
-when he lets me sit on his knee and we watch a film and reenact the kissing scenes (fun)
as for the physical things like what he wears I like it when he...
-when I go round to his flat and he opens the door in his boxers (at about 11 am, lol)

1} Tight pants work both ways. (Well, they don't have to be *tight* but they should fit.) It always makes me sad when guys wear baggy pants and they sag below the butt. I mean, sure you can see the butt, but it's not displayed very well. Like if a girl were to wear a shirt so low you could see the bra, but it was a bra that flattened her chest and made the boobs look ugly. D= Men's butts can be sexy too! Banish the baggy!

2) Hands just on the curve of the waist. It's great because a girl doesn't feel threatened by it, but it send shivers up the spine.

3) Invading the pockets. This one sounds weird, but if I am wearing a hoodie or a jacket or something and a guy were to put ins hands in and just, be in my pocket, that would turn me on so much. That could be just my own weirdness though.

hmmm...well with me? I like...

1.when he runs his hand on the inside of my thigh when we are sitting on a couch together kissing...

2.hmm...i also like to sit across his waist so he can put his hands on my ass..so he can feel..or grab and slap if he wants...i love it lol

3.i let him move his hands all over...it works for both of us..

4.i love..the whole kissing her neck stuff...

5.grabbing my waist and pulling me in closer to him is great...shows he really likes you and what's you hold u...

6.one day my boyfriend and I were kidding around and we were alone..obviously...lol
and he was being all flirty with me so.i teased him a little bit and tried to walk on by him and into the kitchen to get a drink...he picked me up over his shoulder and gave me a really hard slap on the ass..that was great for me plus he said he likes the screams...
so..basically the whole dominant thing..

Whether your kissing, making out, fooling around, etc there are some very basic turn-ons that apply to all girls.
1) Make the first move, all girls like a guy that can take control. Just remember not to go too far, you know what's appropriate and what's not.
2) Kisses on the forehead and nose show your gentleman side and surprisingly can get her to do some not-so lady-like things ;)
3) Let a girl sit on your lap, it lets a girl know your comfortable not to mention everyone's favorite makeout position.
4) Nothing wrong with some neck/ear action just don't get sloppy.
5) Finally, HOLD HER LIKE YOU MEAN IT. I'm not saying squeeze the girl just make sure your hold on her s confident and she'll respond likewise.

1.) when he grabs me, I like a guy who's dominant
2.) he's persistent with his kisses and strokes me in the right places
3.) likes to lift my clothes off, and strokes me still, that's hot
4.) tells me I'm beautiful and he means it
5.) eye contact and continually gazing at me turns me on especially if we're really close and touching ...

that's what my boyfriend does to turn me on

You can't do any of those things if she already doesn't like you!
Trust me, if you do, you'll probably get a slap, or, at the least, she'll laugh at you! xD

What you need to do is first get to know her, and if you've got a personality type that she likes, you're half way there!
Now that that's been said, the physical aspect of seduction is quite extensive...
A couple of things I like most is when a guy SMELLS GREAT! A good perfume or aftershave and I'm already in the mood...SERIOUSLY!
Great hygiene (naturally), being soft and sensual (not grabby!), locking eyes for a long time..so sexy, holding hands (just to show her you care)...

;)

I'm kinda weird, but the smell of fabric softener or laundry detergent on a guy really turns me on. Makes me wanna get really close to him. also when a guy comes right behind me and wraps his arms around my waist...that makes me feel real secure and wanted. kissing my neck sorta like a camel but with less slobbber. rubbing my waist under my shirt, but not going too far up. As you move away from a soft kiss, lightly bite the lip, nibbling on my earlobes and breathing light hot air on them, using your tongue to take out my gauges (I know that's gross but my boyfriend enjoys doing it...and I love it), kissing my chest and slowly make your way down to the breasts, but don't go too far down, compliment me while looking into my eyes, playing with his chest hair, if other guys are looking at me, I love it when my boyfriend pulls me close and kisses me...makes me feel appreciated and know he doesn't want to let go of me, and what really turns me on is when my boyfriend get really close and screams in my face (not yelling screaming, but metal screaming...the good screaming) having his lips brush mine as he's screaming, then kisses me passionately...oh wow I really miss my boyfriend now.

It's not that you can't turn us on, it's that we are discrete about it unlike most guys. Plus we can hide it SO much easier.
I agree with all of the girls that said that when a guy treats her right she gets turned on, but there are also physical things that he can do to turn me on...
Like:
1.)slipping his thumb in the waistband of my pants when he has his arm around me.
2.)Nibbling on my ear lobe
3.) playing with my hair.( not the way that guys usually play with girls hair all rough and everything, be nice and affectionate.)
4.) Telling me what he thinks of me (the positive things) or telling me how I affect him when I do certain things is a huge turn on too.
5.) Coming up behind me when I am standing and grabbing my waist and pulling me close and then when not expected push himself a little closer and harder against me.
6.) Foot/calf massages, or massages just in general.
7.) Smell good...if a guy smells good it one of the most powerful memories that girls have.
8.) when making out suck on her lip(guys and girls both like that)
9.) Trace circles lightly on her back
10.) When you want to be romantic lean close so that your lips barely touch her cheek or ear and whisper what you want to say to her is a husky tone.
11.) Don't brag about your "manliness" girls hate that.
12.) If you are dating the girl for a while and she's really attractive and other guys are interested in her be sort of territorial or protective, she will be greatful especially if the other guy is a creeper and likes to think of herself as yours.
13.) Personally, whenever my boyfriend talks to me about how much he cares for me and uses possesive phrases in front of one of my 'nicknames' like "My sweetheart" that really works too.

I hope that I helped :)

when you ARE a man not a little boy. no abercrombie or hollister. I like when guys are fierce and are confident but not cocky.

-act nice
-smell good (ex: hollister cologne,axe)
-have a funny sense of humor
-always know how to start a conversation and not leave the end of it awkward
-don't come off as an ass :)

always smell good. hollister, axe, tag, old spice.. all those are amazing and great turn ons to me.. be clean too.. a nice haircut or something is always cute. as for like stronger turn ons, when a guy kisses my neck I go crazy.

-"innocently" flexing your muscle
-lifting up your shirt to "scratch" your abs
-brush against the girl "accidentally"
-be funny...like tell jokes
-stare intensely into the girl's eyes while talking to her
-for me, just having your hand on your chest is really hot...

It of course depends on the girl. For me, if it looks accidental, then bonus points... : D
I don't know if this answers your question...I noticed a lot of the answers were more for like "couples", so I tried to be generic, like something you could do to get a girl madly interested in you from afar or something...just my ideas though... If you get a positive result from them lemme know. :)

Women are more attracted to personalitys than just looking though male underware catalogs hahahaha

but if your trying to make a move lol than
i would have my arm around her let her feel comfortable but yeah anything to do with kissin on neck (I like biting) or the side of the face drives me nuts and wanna jump my man lol. YOu have to give us enough tease, but it has to be smooth and not feel like a set up hahahaah

Ahah. I didn't know making sexual innuendos could turn a guy on. I just say them jokingly.

Dunno, but seeing this one guy with his shirt off, being a retard, is pretty hot. Can't say it "turns me on", but it makes me hella happy.

Eh, making out with the guy on top, too. Pretty hawt.

ok when your cuddling behind her laying down give her a kiss on her neck when you make out with her play with her hair ... hmm many things

SURPRSIE ATTACKS, just kidding, well sorta
everything for me is so much better when its a surprise
like when he just comes up behind you and picks you up and spins u, then faces you toward him and kisses u.
aww that's so sweet!
ya it happened once, that's it

and I kno you guys like to stare at boobs but it makes me melt when a guy stares right into my eyes and says somethign like how pretty they are or something, ya kinda stupid but it works. it makes me blush and look away, but it works.

if a guy has hot abs er something then ya, that's a visual thign that turns me on
ummmmm girls truthfully don't get turned on as easily, soooo ya sorry I guess it kinda sucks 4 u
sorry I couldn't come up with anything good.

Okay, well yes I agree a woman can get turned on when a guy treats her with respect, makes her laugh and feel comfortable, compliments her, etc.

If you're talking about physical things...I think it depends entirely on the woman. Everyone has their own tastes. And when it comes to physical turn-ons, women are generally slower to heat up then men.

For me, I get immediately turned on by kissing. Soft, sensual deep kissing...ESPECIALLY when it moves to the neck and behind the ears. It makes me hot as hell.

When a guy kisses my hand, or fingertips, licks or nibbles them. That's totally sexy.

When he leans over to whisper in my ear a lot and his voice gets lower and huskier. It sets the stage for intimacy.

When a guy plays with my hair. Honestly, your scalp is full of tiny nerve endings. It feels pleasurable and comforting when a man plays with your hair - and extra points for brushing it!

When he lightly brushes my lower back or under my shirt, just above my waistband across my stomach.

Give her a relaxing massage and she'll probably jump you.

There's a lot of little things...but it's all about the individual. What turns one woman on won't turn another on. I get turned on by spanking and tickling/wrestling, for example - haha - but I'm not sure all women would.

The reality is guys are all about their penis...girls are all about their emotions. You cannot turn a girl on and the same way. If I was with a guy and he started rubbing his chest I would think he was totally odd and possibly a bit gay.

You actually have to the time to get to know her a little. There are girls that have sex on the first date and usually the reasons are A) they've had a bit to drink B) they have low self-esteem C) the guy they're with has treated them like a woman and listened to them. One of my best friends (a guy) who is married always says that he doesn't understand how dumb guys are nowadays and how it's so easy to make a girl happy. All you have to do is listen and make her feel special. He also wonders what happened to the gentleman (don't we all wonder?).

Anyway, I can tell you that for me once I am into a guy (after a couple of nice dates to get to know eachother) he can brush my hair out of my face stroke my back rub my knee kiss the back of my neck and I'm in - no questions asked!

See, girls are not like men at all. So these type of things don't work., you need a different approach. Lets use me for example-if I go out with a guy(for the first time) and he tries to turn me on-it's obvious and I think he's a dawg.

But-I recently went out with a new guy-he was really funny, we had oppisite views in our conversations-but it made it interesting. He took me to a really nice restarant-treated me like a lady and made me laugh a lot. Then when we went out for drinks he complemented the way I looked-although deep down I could tell what he was really thinkin and it was a huge turn on(even tho he was polite about it). After 10 minutes in the club I was like- lets go to your place. He was like why? I said that I just wanted to talk that it's loud in here. Well we went to his place-and we actually just talked-he actually thought that's what I wanted to do! I eventually had to attack him LOL(and it's Not cause I was drunk because I only drank red bull.

The point is-make her feel comfortable, appreciated, and non-threatened(like trying too hard to turn her on). Usually I can tell that's all a guy wants-but when I saw how fun this guy was and that he wasn't expecting anything-I just HAD to surprise him (and this was the first time I've done somethin like this).

Basically- WOMEN WANT TO FEEL APPRECIATED AND VALUED-so anything you can do to accomplish this will make her feel sexy-manybe sexual LOL.

As for appearance goes-PLEASE don't go in a wrinkly tee shirt-that's the biggest turn off and you'll get no booty haha j/k. Shoes are important-you can usually tell how good a guy is by his shoes. When I worked at a high class restarant, we could point out the good tippers on shoes alone. Just look good-but I don't think that alone will "turn her on."

Maybe the most you could do is (pretend to be discrete) arrange "that part" so you get comfortable-my ex did this (but I think he was just trying to get comfortable-not make me notice) and I was thinking-ooo is he horny or something? but again-he was my Boyfriend not just a date.

But if I just met a guy-I wouldn't want him to turn me on right away-I want to get to know him first. I went to the movies with this one guy and he would keep putting his hand on my knee-eww. I never went out with him again

be romantic but not clingy.

Trying asking her how her day was, talk about things more complex than just small talk, play dumb (on certain subjects!) or a foot massage if she's been walking in heels all day.

Be original! All women are different, if you get to know your lady or a woman, you'll know what you need to do to turn her on.

This is all bs. I had a baby sitter female look under the covers at me when I was sleeping. I used to go to a camp and the girls would try to peak in the guys tent when they were sleeping. Try wearing a towel with nothing on underneath. Pretend to fall sleep and before you know it the girl your with will be taking a peak under the towel. Maybe do a little more. Sorry to give it away ladies but keep it real.

Dude! You totally don't get it.

For a guy, yes, it's all about the physical attraction. But for a girl? Nope. Nada. No-go.

You need to spark her inner flame. Meaning: YOU HAVE TO FEED HER ATTRACTION FOR YOU. And this has nothing to with looks, or any other crap you just spoke of.

I can go on ad nauseam about this subject, but time is precious ...

damn,i got a boner just from reading ur question!

thats a really good question. I'm curious to know too actually. damn girls can turn guys on so easily, but I feel like there's nothing a guy can do to really really turn a girl on