I went out with this guy for about 2 months and we broke up... about 3 months later he texted me and told me that he misses me and that he loves me but I was too attached to him and he needed his space. Then after getting what he wanted he told me the next day he doesn't think its going to workout and that he doesn't feel a connection between us. So now were f*** buddies and I really don't know what to do? I really do love him I would do just about anything to be more than just a friend with him... I'd rather be his friend with benefits than nothing at all to him... should I just hang on to him and see where it goes?
If you want to be friends, it's up to you. I would not, I'm a guy and know the way guys are,( not all the same) but if he broke up with you the very next day, then he as no love or respect for you. As far as I can tell all he wanted was to get you in the bed and nothing more. Why is he texting you, maybe cause he was not able to have anybody else and knows that you would give it to him again. Plus if he had little respect like he did, he's probably one of them guy that when with is friends, tells every little details, not sure you want that, do you? Trust me when I say that this guy is very not worth it, there's many other good guy out there that would be much better for you, at least have respect enough not to break up the next day.
Hope this helps, it may piss some guys off that a guy is dropping guys of like that but you need to know how guys are or at least some of them. I sent you a private message also.
I think he planned out the situation for it to end up the exact way it is now, you may get extremly hurt when it doesn't go beyond this. You can't blame him because in his mind you already know where you stand. You just have to take your emotions out of this!
Absolutely not. I know how much it hurts to want someone soo badly and them not want you the same way, but you HAVE to know that you are worth more than that shit. You want a boyfriend, someone who adores you and treats you like an equal, not some dude who gets his rocks off using your body and then bouncing. You already know what I am telling you, but the sad part is you are stuck in this emotionally. Men want what they cannot have. If you let this guy go and move on, who knows...he may realize your value. But he won't get that chance if you are ready and available every time he calls on you for a good time. Back up a little bit, make yourself less available, and by all means keep dating other people. UP your own value and you can't lose. You're in a win/win situation. Good luck hun~
No. The relationship is unhealthy. The longer you hold on to him the more pain it is going to cause when he moves on to someone else. You need to cut ties while you still can. I know this is easier said than done, but just tell yourself you deserve better than just sex. Make a list of all your great qualities and have friends help if necessary. See what an awesome person you are and how much better you deserve. Have more respect for yourself and tell him to go fly a kite.
Once you realize how much better you are than that go find yourself a guy who deserves you. One who will treat you right. That is the best way to get over someone and to get back at someone.
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