To me when you're totally shaved it looks like a pre adolescent body part. I can't believe there are so many guys who like the look and the thought of doing a child with no body hair. That to me would be a huge turn off.
Don't get me wrong there is nothing wrong with keeping it neat and trimmed, but waxing hurts like hell (if you don't believe me try it guy's) not to mention it's expensive and a little embarrassing to have done, and razor burn down there is no screaming hell either. And again guy's, if you don't believe me try it.
Why shaved? To enjoy the view of a woman's labia, the taste (stays cleaner), more sensitive and feels great. Depends on your definition of "trimmed". Bare from the vulva down and a landing strip is ok. Try laser ablation.
And the thing is we don't think about it like that as you look young we think about it just like you said you look so much cleaner and maintained.. Thats the thing. A girl with all that down there just looks to me like she doesn't take care of herself.. It'd be the same thing as me letting myself go.. Not saying I like wax guys don't freak out. Just saying I know when I don't shave down there IM being LAZY.. and that's all it amounts to.. So to us that's how we look at it when a girl refuses to shave is she's being super lazy.. not to mention if she isn't willing to do that, how often does she clean down there? YUK.
Also I guess the bigger thing is, you all want us to go down on you NO PROBLEM WE'D LOVE TO! But the thing is, we don't want a mouth full of hair just like you don't... besides it detracts from the real focal view ;) AHHH...
I agree with Genesis 5; its a much better feeling with it shaved. Especially during oral sex; a mouthful of hair just isn't appealing to me!
One more point; I'm the father of three grown daughters, have seen them all nude at various points during their lives growing up, and I NEVER think of my shaved girlfriend as being a child when I see it on her. That's for the sicko child porn crowd! A normal man, and especially a father with a daughter, would never think that way when seeing a naked woman with a shaved vagina. It's totally perverted to ever think of doing a child!
You were right in your comment, Genesis 5. If you are ever lucky enough to have a daughter, you will feel differently about this! You will be more sensitive to women, and NOT thinking in a sexual way about a little girl.
Personally I don't think of a little kid,.. but then again,.. I have never seen a little girl in the buff, perhaps if I ever have a little girl I will think differently about this.
Personally I like shaved because of how it feels. Very smooth. More fun to kiss, more fun to play with, etc etc. Also, while I don't like to go bald myself, there have been times where both me and my girl did, and it's a completely different feeling,... much more sensation.
Nicely trimmed is ok too, but honestly, I would imagine that different guys are into different things.
"A child with no body hair"? Hahaha, no. Men aren't thinking like that (well ones not on dateline anyway). The adult movie industry is a like 10+ billion dollar industry. Most are men, so almost every man has watched one in his life. Men have a higher sex drive, and it is perfectly normal in a guy. A lot of the stars in the movie are shaved. It's like if your fantasy always had a guy look the same way in it, you would associate fantasy attraction with that look.
Also in America body hair is not really found attractive on women (besides nice looking hair on the head, which is always been attractive)
So would you try waxing your hmmmm..... area, then let us all know how it feels to wax and what you think it looks like bald? lol - 9 months ago
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Lol, I don't wax, but I do trim short. Neither sex, likes a rain forest down there. And also some things, like shaving armpits and legs, are considered more feminine than masculine. I'll make a deal, shave your head bald and I'll leave a runway strip ;D - 9 months ago
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Seriously though, you don't have to wax. Just trim and keep it neat. If it hurts don't do it, do what you are comfortable with. - 9 months ago
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Yeah I think I'll decline the offer of shaving my head bald. It's -30*c where I live today, not the kind of weather where you want to go running around bald. lol . Yeah I do trim, but I was just wondering why the guys were saying bare was the way to go. - 9 months ago
I am one of the many that like it, but trimmed is okay too. Shaved is preferred.
I wish I could sit here and give you a good reason. It certainly has nothing to do with young girls...if you read the majority of my posts, you will see that I am very much into mature women.
Again, for no reason I can find right now, I just prefer a woman who has no body hair but I also don't care for toe hair, armpit hair, any of it. I do like a nice head of hair though.
If I ever come up with a better reason, I will let you know. Sorry...
Thanks, I was beginning to get a complex about liking to keep it neat not bald .lol - 9 months ago
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When: 4 months ago
I'm all for shaving! I'm very hygienic and I think the whole hair thing is sick I use to just trim but I became uncomfortable but whatever floats your boat :D
I think guys just like it when a girl is clean shaven. Maybe they equate shaved with being clean, who knows. It's kind of like sometimes when girls don't like it when guys have the 5 o'clock shadow on their face because it can be scratchy. :-)
Okay, my guy doesn't care if I shave or not, but I like to shave. So if you're worried about razor burn, shave in the shower and put lotion on afterwards. I don't completely shave mine, I leave a small patch of hair that I call my "Soul Patch" he thinks it's cute.
So do you use a normal razer and do you moisturize after and if so how often and with what, and how often do you shave 2 - 3 times a week or what. - 8 months ago
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I shave it every two days and I usually moisturize with lotion - 8 months ago
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What kind of lotion do you use do you use lotion everyday or just after you shave, and do you shave with or against the grain of the hair do you have a preferred razer. - 8 months ago
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When: 9 months ago
I totally agree with you. and I don't understand why guys like it bare down there? and I totally like ur child with no hair metaphor. lol =] some guys are o.k. with it down there just trim it and keep it neat looking, just not natural. ya kno?
Yeah don't they know or even care that it hurts like hell to wax that very sensitive area. - 9 months ago
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Yeah, exactly, and I would never wax, afraid of the pain. like i've waxed my eyebrows for the first time like 3 months ago, and I was like OUCH, I couldn't even image the pain it would be down there! - 9 months ago
I agree. I think there's something a little "off" about guys who love it so much. I mean we're supposed to have hair there. I shaved it all for awhile, but I hated it. It didn't look natural. Now I keep my trimmed and groomed via shaving and waxing occasionally along the bikini line in the summer.
I actually think *most* men prefer a little something there as opposed to being totally bare. The totally shaved thing is all hype, haha :)