Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 3 to 4 years and we both are virgins. We said to wait until we decide to have sex. But now I really want it. I get him turned on and ready but he just won't do it. He says we should wait till marriage but I can't. How shall I make him do it?
I am trying to imagine the outrage that would occur if a guy asked this same question about how to make his girlfriend - who doesn't want to have sex - have sex with him.
Passed that you a) can wait and b) should respect his choice. Correct me if I'm wrong - but does your desire have anything to do with friends who have had sex and whom you don't want to fall behind? 9/10 questions I've seen from kids here on this issue are about the others in their group.
If he is not ready leave him alone if a guy were to post this he would be labeled a jerk. You said you decided to wait so just wait! If it is the physical thing you need this sounds weird but go masturbate. Yes girls can do that. If you feel like you need it emotionally then your perspective on sex is wrong and your not ready for it anyway.
Don't make him do anything. You should respect him even more for waiting. If he can do it you can too. Think of it this way, when your married and he says yes, it will be so much more special because you earned it!
Hes obviously made that decision in his mind to only loose it when he is married. you must respect his decisions. and if you love him then you will be able to understand. think of it as if you were him, you wouldn't want anyone to keep trying to make you do something you aren't ready for or is against any morals of yours. while you aren't married pleasure yourselves in other ways other than having sexual intercourse. sex is something that should be cherished, it shouldn't just be done because of the feel of it. give him time and don't rush him. just wait. all good things take time to happen and there is never a real time limit.
Sweetie lets just say you really can't make him do anything! When he's ready he will do it with you!! but if he wants to wait to marriage I think you should agree with that because seems like one of those guys that think if you have sex now before marriage that you might leave him afterwards but I am not sure if you would do that!! If you're engaged to him I think you should respect him and wait until marriage!! but if not talk to him about it things should work out for you guys!!! tell me how is goes!! All should go well for you!!!!
How old are you? You guys have dated for a while but I would respect his decision when he wants to will. Yes I get you really want him. My guy was patient and waited 6 months before we had sex its your first time make I special don't pressure him... - 11 months ago
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When: 11 months ago
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