Do guys really need a dirty thought in their minds while they are masturbating? Could he come just from physical stimulation or does it need to be mental as well? If so, is that why guys stare so long at girls. So that they could remember all of the details for when they get home to do their "business" in private?
To become erect and start masturbating, I usually have some kind of dirty thought in my head. However, I've never tried not to have one.? However, sometimes getting head or having sex is so pleasurable that I try to think of what I ate for breakfast, or what I'll be doing later that day/week. I can receive the same pleasure by thinking dirty than thinking about groceries. When I think dirty thoughts, I come faster
yes. it make them more horny and gets them in the mood. but starring at a girl for a long time then going home to masturbate. that's kind of freaky and I'm a man.
I don't need a thought in my head. Sometimes I do have a thought after I get business underway, but just the physical stimulation alone is all that's needed.
I rarely do it while watching porn and when I do I end up closing my eyes and using my imagination. Most often I just close my eyes and think of a sexual situation, sometimes I like to open my eyes and watch hand move up an down, but I think guys have to at least think of something dirty while doing it, because you don't want to be thinking about what your going eat for lunch or playing video games while stroking you penis. You want to think about something sexual.
Yes, we need a dirty thought in our heads. Guys stare at girls so much because we have no choice, it's a behavior that's hard-wired. It's the same reason why wolves hunt sheep or cats hunt birds, it's what nature intended.
That having been said, as a gentleman, I do nothing more than stare (although I have occasionally been known to do so too intently, especially at younger women, when I am drunk). And yes, it's because you are all so lovely, so delicious. You are all like sweet smelling roses, like gentle fragrances in a cold, lonely world.
So, the next time a (gentle)man stares you down, provided he isn't behaving boorishly, give him something to think about.... Cast him back a gaze, perhaps pose a bit. If you are really gutsy, stare him back down with a smile. The vast majority of us mean you no harm, we just find you enticing. :)
Couldn't agree more with these guys. While I never need a visual (I'm not huge on porn, I mean, I guess it has its place, but I haven't looked at any in well over a year. I was talking to some friends about it today. I guess it's kinda unusual for someone my age who is as yet a virgin to females. =P) But thinking about something can help, but several times, after I've gone without for a few days, I've honestly said to myself "I'm gonna get a wet dream if I don't take care of business tonight, and my sheets are frankly way too old to handle that kind of abuse." Guys do it different times for different reasons.
Guys in general do need a visual or something in their vast imagination to masturbate too but not always cause physical stimulation from someone other than ourselves can push that over the edge in itself!! As for memorizing details that's a no they are generally just liking what they see!!
It really depends on the situation. Sometimes a good porn scene is good enough to masturbate, other times a re-living a sexual encounter from the past is also good, other times maybe there is a girl at school or work that looks hot and you masturbate to that, or sometimes as my friends say, 'shit, there is nothing to do, ill just go masturbate...'; so I think either way, sometimes you do it with no 'fantasy' in mind, other times, you create whatever you like.....and honestly, I don't stare at girls so I can come home and masturbate to them...I stare because there is something I like about the girl and I'm captivated by what I see...
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