Can a person's sexuality be like this?

If you're going to going to be in a relationship that's emotionally intimate that has no sexual component, MAKE SURE that the feelings are mutual, and that your sexuality is understood and accepted. Because if (WHEN) there's someone you find deeply sexually compelling, you don't want that upheaval to destabilize your other relationship.

As a straight guy with a straight guy's approach, I do best pursuing the sexually compelling and hoping an emotional attraction eventually develops. Your mileage, however, may vary.

I've answered this question many times, so I'm just going to copy and paste it

You're probably young. Every girl has a natural attraction to other girls. Girls naturally get closer to each other then guys do. They hug each other, talk a lot closer, kiss on the cheek, get a lot more emotionally involved, sleep in the same bed, change in front of each other, and possibly even shower together. So there is an emotional attachment that girls feel towards other girls. Add that with the fact that your hormones are going crazy and it explains your feelings. And also the fact that girls just naturally have attractive bodies. It doesn't make you a lesbian, and it doesn't even make you bi. I think a lot of girls just think they're bi because they feel these attractions, so they kind of live into that role that they think they are. But it's natural hun. You're young and curious. Doesn't make you lesbian, and doesn't make you bi.

yeah, my bfff is a bi girl, and she says that can happen.

Yes, your sexuality can be like that. I am in the exact same boat, I'm romantically and sexually attracted to girls but only sexually attracted to guys. Don't worry about it, all it means is your sex life is going to be waaaayyyyyy more fun.

You have a lot of time to explore your sexuality though experience with the relationships you will have...it starts to make more sense what's right to and for you in practice than it will in theory.

When I was younger...teens to mid 20's, I knew I was sexually attracted to women, but felt I could never be in a relationship with one..My first girlfriend in hs drove me nuts...I still love her dearly (we are still friends) but she nearly put me off of women altogether. ;)

I decided I much preferred to be in a relationship with a man, because in my relationships with men, I liked the big strong dominant male and coudlnt imagine a woman could ever fill that role for me.

A few years ago though, I met a woman who took my breath away... and as we started dating, I realized I was the dominant factor in the relationship and I was very comfortable with that...things went great...I really fell for her, but then she started to drive me nuts too. Still yet, I learned more about myself, and no longer had a limit to whether or not I would be in a relationship with a woman. Men drive me nuts too afterall...so either way, its just a matter of finding the right one for me.

Live, experience, learn, grow...

Well, there are a lot of questions here. I would say it is possible because that is how you feel. I would conjecture that perhaps there is an emotional reason why you are attracted to the guys. Once you discover why you like one over the other you will have your answer. Do you think perhaps it could be that the guys are easier to come by than girls? Do you go to any places where you could find a female that is also sexually attracted to females? Maybe you haven't met the right one.

well I'm straight and have never been with a woman, but I can tell you that I mostly fantasize about women. My current boyfriend and I have great sex and I am very turned on by him, but in the past I have tended to fantasize about girls when I was with guys. However, I never ever wanted to be with a girl in real life or have a relationship with one. And although I am not visually turned on by most guys, my boyfriend does turn me on.