My boyfriend went away to see family over the holiday. When he got back we went to have sex and he was a little chaffed. Dry around the tip of the head and a little down the shaft. I have seen this on him before, when we have had marathon sex or a BJ that was maybe a little rough. He said it was due to the cold dry weather, which is very different from where we live.
I spoke to him every day and I know he was mostly with family. What is the likelihood that he was just a little dry from the cold weather. I don't know what to think.
Update: Thank you SO much to all of your responses. I know I am prone to being a little paranoid, so it's always nice to get the advice to steer me in the right direction. Just have to get over past experiences, but I still want to be aware at the same time..
10 months ago
I lived most of my years in a cold weather state, and I can tell you chapping doesn't just happen living in cold weather, because it's not as if he walks around outside without his pants on.
But if he was doing a lot of masturbating while he was away, that might explain it.
If you are seeing his penis go back to normal, then things are okay then.
But, if he did cheat, that would obviously be a reason to check in with you every day, to throw off suspicion. Plus, he knows you wouldn't be able to prove anything, assuming that he covered his tracks well.
To me this sound like he did not cheat. to me it sounds like he was mastrabating, maybe even a little to much. I have had that happen to me from mastrabation but it was a case where I did the deed, then as soon as I could get it up again I did it again and it chafed like what your talking about. He most likely used the weather excuss because he was embaresed to tell you that he did
It's incredibly and ultimately unlikely it's the weather unless he was sticking his penis out the window at night, which I'm pretty sure he doesn't do. If he was with family, it's quite unlikely that he cheated on you especially where he doesn't act any different.
The only thing I can come up with is masturbation. And possibly quite a lot of it.
Well it depends on more than the condition of his equipment...does he act guilty...does he shy away from certain subjects...does he act differently when you have sex or fool around...if he was untrue, I'm sure he'd act a bit guilty unless he has no soul...
He didn't act like anything was different when he got back, and he was certainly anxious to see me. Everyday he talked to me and told me the stuff he did and people he saw, etc...he isn't acting guilty at all. I just have a hard time trusting. :-( - 11 months ago
I don't think he cheated. if you talked to him everyday and you know he was mostly with his family, he was. plus if he did come and its on his penis, then maybe he jerked it before he came to see you...? he could last longer that way. and if he cheated, I'm sure he'd be smart enough to clean himself before coming back to you. so I don't think you have a cheater on your hand. that's just my opinion.
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