So my ex and I have been sleeping together for a few month now. He broke up with me because he said he had no feelings for me but now says he doesn't know how he feels. He said he needed to spend some time with me to figure out if he wanted a relationship again and I gave him that but he still says he doesn't know. At this point I am walking away because I don't want to get strung along only to get hurt again.
My question is: Is it possible he really does need more time to figure things out? Will he figure things out faster when he sees he can't have me anymore?
I haven't talked to him for a few days and have limited contact since last Sunday. I have to see him again this weekend and I am wondering what to expect now that we haven't been talking.
"Is it possible he really does need more time to figure things out?"
No.
It takes an instant to decide whether you're going to risk the work it takes for a relationship to survive, or to walk away. He is refusing to make that decision.
He may need time to figure things out, he could be being ohnest with you. Normally people have time apart to figure things out, not time together so that does seem a bit strange.
If I was you I would move on, I feel that it is best and that way you have no chance of getting hurt again.
Thanks, I know that is the best thing to do and I have been focusing on me lately to figure out what I can do to get over him. But sometimes it is really hard because we were just really great together and I love spending time with him. I still have some hope that he will realize he does want to get back together so it is hard letting go. - 10 months ago
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