My girlfriend tells me that she likes it when someone is demanding during sex. I try to but it just slips my mind at times, she also likes to be bitten and her hair to be pulled. I would do all of it, but I just keep thinking that I would go to far and either scare her or leave a nasty mark on accident. I tied to bit her a bit while we were having sex, but that was only for a second. I was afraid that something would happen and I would do something to her.
I usually bit her on her neck or where the neck meets the shoulder. I can give orders pretty good, I had a small taste of the military. I was in charge of about 80 to 100 cadets. What can I do to not hurt her to much, but yet still fulfill her roughness? Should I fight the fear?
Well this girl sounds like a freak...I know how she feels because I'm like that too.But I also understand that if the guy can't do it like I want him to well then I take what he could give..Have you tried telling her why you don't do as told?If you haven't I say you do..But if she really wants you to go rough on her then I say you do.Hello she wants it so if she says that she doesn't like it then tell her to fu** of then and that all your doing is trying to fulfill her needs.And don't worry about hurting her cause I don't think that she'll get hurt.Reason is because she's probably used to it...So she won't mind...So go for it!!!!
Just relax! :) some girls enjoy this because it turns them on. I personally don't like it. Let her know that you would love to fulfill her fantasies and desires but have her promise that if she feels you are going at it too much she will let you know and tell you to stop. This will put both of you at ease and will help you feel more relaxed about the situation. Communication is everything. If you are still uncomfortable doing this after you have talked to her you should tell her and she should respect your feelings :) good luck!
Yeah we have a code word during sex that we use, that way when she says stop and doesn't mean it I will keep going. When she says the word I stop for real, and no just one more second. - 7 months ago
She knows you might do it a little too hard, and she'll warn you if that happens. Just start out by doing it little bits at a time, no need to jump in full force.
If its a turn-on for her, try to please her. She should be able to tell you when enough is enough, or when you are hurting her. Just be careful you don't. go too far. After a few times you will probably know her limits. What you are describing here is called rough sex!
Well generally girls that like that are mostly wanting the guy to take complete charge of them so another way could be to hold her arms down so she can't move them among other things like lightly tying her to the bedpost being really dominant and telling her what you want her to do to you!! Things like that might work...
Man, just do it. If you bite too hard, then she will tell you, but every girl that has told me to bite her and pull her hair, when I first did it, I was a bit hesitant, so I kind of did it at a moderate level; once I saw that she wasn't complaining, I bit harder, and pulled the hair harder; at first I was a bit surprised, but then you kind of get the feeling of what's too much, but you have to try it, and girls will tell you if you went too far; and I have bitten too hard sometimes, pulled the hair too hard, but the girls tell me, 'not like that, but like the last time,' so that helped me to determine what was the limits. If you keep on fearing this, soon you will find yourself single.
Telling him "soon he will be single" is bad advice. She needs to respect his feelings as well as him respecting hers. If all she wants from his is ruff sex he deserves better. - 7 months ago
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We both respect each others feelings, also I enjoy a bit of roughness. - 7 months ago
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Indeed....but the point of the advice is that he needs to do what she is telling him to do and that is, bites and hair pulling. And I myself have been dumped because I wasn't rough enough. Granted, I was younger then, but I learned my lesson. Do as told. - 7 months ago
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