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Without a condom?

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xLIKEwOwX (Age:18 to 24)     When: 10 months ago
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This is for girls and guys.. Does it feel better to have sex without a condom? I'm really paranoid, so I've obviously always used one. I've been with my guy for about 9 months. How long did you wait before you stopped using condoms? I'm on the pill and we are both clean, but it would be just my luck to get pregnant. Now is a really bad time for both of us.. I know that I'm probably over-reacting.

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johnsmith2116
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johnsmith2116 (Age:30 to 35)      When: 8 months ago
Yes it feels better. And when I've been in a serious relationship, she was always on the pill.
As long as you take it properly there is really nothing to worry about.
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j-tayla
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j-tayla (Age:18 to 24)      When: 10 months ago
Use a condom until your married and ready to have kids
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MetroMarky (Age:18 to 24)      When: 10 months ago
I don't know! but I think a condom would be better because its better protection and if they over looked one of you then you lower your chance of getting a STD by using a condom. Try getting tested a couple more times and then get married then I say its fine to have sex without a condom. Well that's what i'd do b/c I don't want an STD. And I don't want a kid before i'm married!
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Talia
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Talia (Age:Under 18)      When: 9 months ago
Its better to not use a condom when me and my boyfriend have sex and when we use a condom I don't feel a thing but when its without one it feels really good so yeah its good.
and don't over react just enjoy your time with him and don't worry about getting pregnant your on the pill whats to worry bye.
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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)      When: 10 months ago
I had the depo shot, one shot and you're protected for about 4 months. My boyfriend came in me at least 30 times, never got pregnant. We were together for a year and 7 mo. before we had sex so we have so much trust. but I don't recommend it, better safe than sorry, wait till you've been together for a longer time and are more serious, is this a person you can see yourself marrying and having kids with. If not then don't do it. It doesn't feel that much different, but you just feel closer knowing that's their real skin touching yours, not a condom. but better safe than sorry
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April (Age:25 to 29)      When: 10 months ago
I prefer sex without a condom, but enjoy it just as much with.

For as long as I was on birth control I never had a guy pull out and never got pregnant, however I was lucky. In addition to taking the pill regularly I did some light charting to estimate when I was ovulating to avoid sex during that time. I know the purpose of the pill is to keep your body from ovulating, but since the pill is only 98-99% effective I didn't want to risk that 2%. I didn't care if I was over reacting. I REALLY didn't want to have children. I think if you want to stop using condoms but want additional protection in place this may be something for you to try.

A book that really changed the way I think about birth control in general is "Taking Charge of Your Fertility". I think it's a good book for women in a committed relationship.
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Marie099 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 10 months ago
First of all... it depends on what kind of birth control you're taking. Most birth control pills are 98 or 99% effective so if you take it the right way everyday your chance of getting pregnant is only 1% so you shouldn't worry too much about that. Second.. I've been having sex with my fiance for over a year now... I'm on birth control and recently switched from orthotri to YAZ birth control. Sometimes we use a condom some times we don't and I haven't gotten pregnant yet. It feels slightly different to me when the guy has no condom but he says he can feel it better without one. (I mean what guy wouldn't say that) lol. So if your up for it and you're comfortable with this guy go for it. Just make sure you don't miss ANY pills and Google some information about your birth control and find out exactly how effective it is :) hope I helped!
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