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Am I gay if I love anal sex with girls? I mean I would never even think of guys?

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Anonymous User (Age:Under 18)     When: 10 months ago
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im worried because I love anal and doggy style so does that kinda make me gay? also a couple of times I have fingered my own ass while masturbating? is that gay? HELP!


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Anonymous User      When: 3 months ago
If you would never think of guys, then you're not gay. A lot of girls like anal sex too, and they obviously can't be gay. And you shouldn't be worried, because being gay isn't a disease or anything. If you do, however, think of having sex with a guy, and think you might enjoy it, then why not experiment? Maybe you're bisexual.
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Question Asker Thanks for the advice it really helps (: - 3 months ago

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peanutbutter      When: 4 months ago
no not at all.
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chocktachick
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chocktachick      When: 5 months ago
Not at all, and in fact, doggy style is biologically the best position and most stimulating for a girl to have sex. So, your favorite position is no problem at all.
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JustConfused
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JustConfused      When: 5 months ago
No. your not gay but you could be bisexual. experiment and find out if you like it better that way
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FifthElement      When: 8 months ago
The answer is no. You'd have to be attracted to men as well in order to qualify as gay. You can't help what feels good, and if you like anal and doggy style, then it means just that.
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bruja1519      When: 8 months ago
NO! It just means that you like anal and doggy style etc...
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Anonymous User      When: 10 months ago
Your not gay. Lots of people like to give anal. lots of girls like to get it too. myself included ha. and as far as the fingering ass thing. guys have actually asked me to do that for him while we were having sex. it must feel amazing. your only gay if your attracted to guys and poke one ha.
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Anonymous1234 God, do all the guys who boink you like slutty, cheap stupid girls? You can't spell for shit, dummy.
Cripes, if a guy told you to set yourself on fire, would you even question WHY? Why are you so lame and stupid, twit? - 9 months ago
Answerer Uhm.... I'm pretty sure I didn't spell anything wrong. thanks for the coment though I almost give a shit ha. - 9 months ago
coco489 Honestly, someone needs to get rid of that Anonymous1234 chick. She's a waste of space, all her answers are garbage and she seems to have some serious issues with herself that she needs to put other people down for asking (or answering) questions when she hasn't asked any herself. Here's a question to ask yourself girl...what is your problem and why won't you just do us all a favor and F right off? - 9 months ago
Mark0z Whatever dude she seems like a perfect woman :D - 8 months ago

philosophersdilemma
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philosophersdilemma      When: 10 months ago
Some guys just like anal sex--there's nothing wrong with that. And there is a whole pleasure system for guys if they finger themselves while masturbating, so what feels good for you doesn't make you gay. Neither of these preferences make you gay.

If you found yourself attracted to men rather than women, though, that would be a different story.
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DixieGirl2406
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DixieGirl2406      When: 10 months ago
That would be a no. Just because you love that position does not make you gay. A lot of guys love anal! Don't sweat. If you never think of being with guys, that's a good sign. =) And even if you think about it with guys it doesn't mean you're gay either. Just curious.
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Anonymous1234 Guys who like anal are definitely harbouring feelings for guys. "Anal" is not human or normal. :) - 9 months ago

 
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Anonymous User      When: 10 months ago
I think NO
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Anonymous1234 Are you one of those under 25 who can flush a toilet after doing their number two's ? - 9 months ago
Answerer What? - 9 months ago
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Botosaui617
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Botosaui617      When: 19 days ago
yes that is gay. its sodomy. gay people took oral sex from straight people. and straight people took sodomy from gay people.
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bersaba
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bersaba      When: 2 months ago
No.
Gay: You want to have sex with men. You fantasize about men. You masturbate whilst thinking about men. You watch porn of men having sex with men (or focus on the men in 'straight' porn).

As for the whole anal thing, that's just part of your sexuality and fetish / turn on. It's not even a particularly 'outlandish' one. For a start, a guys prostate is quite sensitive, and many guys enjoy the feeling of it being stimulated. As for anal sex with a female, there are many reasons why this can be enjoyed. (Physical pleasure from tightness / vacuum effect etc | The pleasure of being in a 'powerful position' | Subconsciously, an ass looks like breasts).

Personally: I've no desire to receive anal sex (prostate massage), however a few years ago my girlfriend (at the time) and I had anal sex as a birthday present. I found it highly pleasurable physically, but my girlfriend didn't (it wasn't painful, but it just did nothing for her). So it was only a once off.

But no, rest assured you are not gay simply for enjoying anal sex. It's just a quirk. Just remember your partner wants enjoyment too.
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jagermeister
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jagermeister      When: 3 months ago
um no anal sex with a girl is not gay but fingering your own ass?
i have to say that's f***ing gross to finger your own ass sorry bro but I think your trying to say you want a guy behind you or a girl with a strap on banging your ass.
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Manafon      When: 3 months ago
you're gay if you fantasize about sex with men, or have sex with men.

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chuy_tomasin
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chuy_tomasin      When: 4 months ago
no that means that you like to try new things and well that cool and mmmmm well I think that your not gay if you did that its because you were horny
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kinger
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kinger      When: 8 months ago
your not gay, most guys like giving anal. lucky she like it!
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lefthand
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lefthand      When: 8 months ago
Nope. Being gay is wanting to share your life with another man as your primary love interest. Sex is just sex.
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Anonymous User      When: 9 months ago
Dude you just picked almost every guys fav positions to give to a girl, anal and doggy no your not gay, the only way you would be gay is if you liked it when another man did you.
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Anonymous1234 That's you're not gay, not "your" you dense, uneducated freak. Lovemaking isn't about shoving your tiny little penis up somebody's shithole, boy. And I doubt any woman would want to have sex with a pathetic, smelly freak like you. Grow up and take a bath, homeboy. - 9 months ago
Answerer First off I am educated, and second you would be surprised on how many girls like anal sex, and third I don't smell, and lastly I have slept with many women and almost every one of them wanted to have anal sex or doggystyle. What are you like 12 or are you just some washed up old slut, get a life. - 9 months ago

l-hedoniste
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l-hedoniste      When: 10 months ago
Liking boys and not girls makes you gay. Nothing else.
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crazycool
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crazycool      When: 10 months ago
i wouldn't go as far as saying you were gay everyone just likes to do things different
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Limey
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Limey      When: 10 months ago
no, being gay is defined by many factors, none of which involve putting a finger up you arse, or liking anal sex with women.
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