Sex Toys and Boys..

I think it depends a little how long it's been and how strong your muscles are down there. The whole thing about getting permanently stretched is a myth: it's a layer of muscles that makes you tight. You can exercise them if you have problems with losing tightness after sex. Try looking up "Kegel exercises."

I wouldn't worry too much. I think most guys are happy just having sex at all! I doubt he'll notice unless it's right after.

I did this today. He knew ahead of time because I told him. Not because I was afraid he'd noticed, but because he asked what I had been up to today. He had turned me on through text messages in the morning so I blamed it on him anyway :) I don't know if he could feel the difference or not, but I wasn't too concerned with it anyway. He seemed to enjoy in none-the-less.

I doubt he would notice. I am sure our vagina doesn't feel the exact same to our guy every time we have sex.