I just recently started seeing this guy (about 10 days ago). On our 3rd date we went out to dinner and then did a little bar hopping. Neither of us were drunk...but we were kind of buzzing a bit. On the way home he told me that he wasn't interested in dating anybody else. We got back to my house and we ended up making out on my front porch pretty intensely for almost 10min. He said that he wanted us to be exclusive.
The making out was great...but I am a virgin and I know that I will not be comfortable with moving on to sex until I have known him a bit longer (say a month or so). Things are moving so fast...I don't want to lead him into thinking I am ready and then put the breaks on.
I really do like him...and it's not that I don't want to have sex...I just don't want to rush things. Are most guys okay with making out for a while or do they find that to be a tease? Any advice??
Usually guys are okay with waiting if they know that it's eventually going to happen with the girl they like. The only time I've seen the guy not want to wait is when he's just trying to get laid.
It is very important that you would not do anything until you feel ready. Otherwise you will regret this for the rest of your life. Tell him that you need to take it slow and you have no intensions to tease him. And do not let him manipulate you to have sex with him when you are not ready (like if you love me you do that etc, you can answer that if he loved you he wouldn't ask for something you don't feel ready for). But I hope he is a nice guy and will respect you and your decisions. Good luck!
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