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So I don't like deep throating.

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Anonymous User (Age:25 to 29)     When: Over a year ago
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i mean, of course who really does, but whenever I go down on a guy I guess his reflex is to shove his dick in my throat. whenever I gag that like freaks me out and I get all..i don't even know how to explain it. I think I have a pretty strong gag reflex is there anything I can do to stop that ..or stop him from making me gag?


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Techan
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Over a year ago
You can stop your gag reflex with practice, that's about all there is. It just takes getting used to. Your body's impulse it to cough out the foreign object entering your throat, it's a survival mechanism. With practice you can learn to relax those muscles and not gag. Not everyone can do it and it's not easy, but I've known girls who can in fact do it.

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  • Over a year ago
    The secret to mastering deep throat is just to relax.

    I used to be a bulimic so I had a BAD gag reflex and yes, a couple times I ralphed either on him (which was hilarious and embarrassing) or in the trash can.

    Just relax, practice with a hot dog if you have to, or a cotton swab, eventually you'll get used to having something poking your throat, and your gag reflex will reduce.

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    Over a year ago
    It's just a matter of a lot of practice, I'm told. Like someone else said, use a hot dog.

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  • ilovelegs
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    Over a year ago
    I think that guys that can't enjoy having a girl go down on them without shoving their di*ks down their throats are worst than jerks. That's absolutely not necessary in order for a guy to enjoy getting head. I think that guys that do that get some satisfaction from making a girl submit to something that's below the level of being respected. They really don't care for that girl all that much. They're more interested in getting a girl to give them a bj the way they want so that they can just get off and make the girl swallow. Keep your hand on the base of his di*k when you're giving oral and you take control how much you want in your mouth... instead of him! Besides you can be doing some cool hj movements with your hand that feel good while giving a bj and helps him to come faster. As soon as a guy starts that thrusting just take it out of your mouth and tell him you're not doing it anymore unless he lets you be in control. If he cares about you that'll be no problem.

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    • Over a year ago
      Yeah, nobody should ever do anything during sex that the other person doesn't want.
      Having said that, some girls are into BDSM.
  • JasonJenkind
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    Over a year ago
    just don't deep throat screw him if he dose not understand

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  • AsseyAmber
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    Over a year ago
    honey... I have the same problem... I hate it when they do that... you can try eating some salt before you do it... it really does help some... I don't know what it does but it works...

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    Over a year ago
    It's very simple. If you don't like it, don't do it. If he doesn't like that or respect your wishes, then he's not the guy for you!

    I have never done it and probably never will. I'm sure my man would probably enjoy it, but he would never disrespect me or pressure me to do something I don't want to do.

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  • Randommusicluver
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    Over a year ago
    There is not a lot you can do to stop your gag reflex...if there is I would like to know too. If you really don't like deep throat, then tell him. If he just ignores you, they he obviously doesn't respect you very much.

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