I've never given a blow job - what do I do!?! nor have a kissed someone. I'm so unexperienced...tips anyone?

you need to keep switching it up to vary the stimulation. a key thing is also how you act in general. you need to be enthusiastically into it and acting like you are loving it. many girls go into this quite ashamed kind of mode when they go to give head. you need to act like you are really into it, look up at his eyes a lot, get sloppy and just go with it. make the mmmmmmm sound, like you love the taste of it.
swirl your tongue around the head of the penis. lick his balls while you jerk him off. rub the head of his **** on your lips without putting it in your mouth. put the head in and out of your mouth but not very far, just past the lips. keep your lips tight around the head and go in and out a little like you are sucking on a lollipop, but don't actually suck too hard. sometimes it is nice to see you only taking healf the head in. we like to see your lips wrapped around it and still see some of the head. it is really nice if you are doing the lollipop thing while looking innocently up at us. we like it when you act like you need to suck our penis or you won't be happy. rub his penis head on the inside of your cheek sometimes.
by the way it is way better if we are standing up or sitting in a chair and you are on your knees, it is just a hotter situation and we can see everything.

here is the real kicker, master this and he will be in heaven: when you are sucking it pull it out every once in a while, look up at your man in his eyes and slap his penis against your extended tongue a bunch of times and then rub his **** quickly all over your tongue but keep your tongue extended and steady and move the **** to make it rub on your tongue, all the while still staring him in the eyes. don't be afraid to get sloppy and dirty about it, we like that. some girls get alll nervous and think that they have to do it some specific way, but generally we want you to lose yourself in it and just be enthusiastic and sloppy about it. we love the fact that you are getting so close and personal with our penis and happily rubbing it all over you tongue, lips and even face. slapping and rubbing it on your breasts now and again is always nice too while you take a little break from sucking.

it sounds kind of perverted, but one of the great things about getting head is that the girl is looking sweet and innocent and she can barely take our big throbbing penis in her mouth but she is trying and getting it rubbed all over her. we like that you are taking a kind of submissive position to us, getting down on your knees and working hard just to make us feel great. for me the best part is watching her do all those nasty sloppy things with my penis.

oh, also grip his balls when you are doing it and make sure to give them a little attention to.

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i can't speak for every guy but me personally
-the sloppier the better (a lot of saliva)
-gagging sounds make him feel bigger
-try to go as deep as you can
-eye contact is good but just don't stare at us . . .makes us feel weird
- don't leave the balls hanging (no pun intended..lol)
- if your mouth can't take it all, use your hand to compensate for what your mouth can't handle.

Wow...talk about putting the horse before the cart. You havne't kissed a guy and yet you are worried about bj tips.

As for the bj...for your first time, I would just encourage you to pay attention to his moaning. Don't be scared of what you are doing. There are enough examples on tv and the movies now to give you a little education, but you have to be willing to follow through with it.

One caution. Some girls freak out when the give a bj, and then make the guy feel like he is gross or disgusting. That will kill a relationship. So if you are going to give one, commit to it no matter what.

Bj is just foreplay...unless you're in the 7th grade! Grow up!

Hmm you talked about doing three things in your question that you've never done yet... . kissing, a bj and having sex. I think what you should do is kiss him before you do those others.. like a longggggggg time before. Meantime, you decide what YOU like best... not what do guys like best. Also, make sure you have some pretty deep feelings for him and trust him completely before you even consider those last two. Those could get you std's or pregnant or not too great of a reputation in a hurry if he's just some current boyfriend that you just happen to like now and think each other is cute.

Well that's certainly not a regular thing to do, are you doing this because you want to or because he asked you to? I agree with the guys above this is quite the big step and well don't rush stuff, and answering your question I'd say theyre equally awesome because most of the time one leads to the other

holy crap, maybe you should slow down and take one step at a time?

You've never even kissed someone and you are thinking about giving your boyfriend a blowjob?!

I am guessing you are not over 18 either. Even if you are, slow down. There is no need to rush this stuff. Oral sex is not like a kiss. It is extremely intimate for deep, committed, mature relationships. Don't make it cheap. Don't be cheap.

Wow. Slow down! You haven't even KISSED your boyfriend yet, and you want to give him a blow job? Wait a few months, really. A relationship isn't just about the sex, even though it is a fun part of it. Just slow down, don't feel pressured to give him a blow job, or do anything with him until you're ready. And if he pressures you, then it's time to find a new boyfriend.

Well it's very simple. If you've never done it, don't try any teeth because you won't be experienced.. Go for full lips and tongue and don't always do the same thing. It's better to have a wide variety of things to do to him. Try also not using just your mouth.. Maybe play with the bottom portion while your giving one or anything of that genra! Take your tongue and go back and forth really fast on his head, he loves it when you do that with a mini hand job below at the same time. But if you always do that, it gets boring so you have to change it up. Also try deepthroating, it makes them go crazy (: They also have this tender spot right between their balls below the lower part of the penis.. If you rub it at the same time, it's a big winner. What they like the most is when he cums in your mouth.. Whether you spit or swallow is your choice but they will love you forever if you let them do it (:Hope I helped (:

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I know that most guys will like blow jobs better because they don't have to do much. We all know they're lazy :). Be rough with the handling. And also make sure you are sucking hard but sweetly. You must be ready to do this though! If you are pressured into doing the bj it will not be as fun rather you want to yourself. Surprise him when you do it too. Wear a low-cut shirt and a lacy or really small bra so when you're sucking he can see down your shirt. It will make him harder, which means more fun for you!