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The Magic Number

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Akissej (Age:18 to 24)     When: 7 months ago
Views: 285     Category: Sexuality
Guys: What do you think is an alright amount of men for a girl to have slept with?
How many is not enough and how many is too much?

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johnsmith2116
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johnsmith2116 (Age:30 to 35)      When: 5 months ago
Whether you're old or young, there really is no specific age. Because that is suggesting that you are trying to live up to someone else's standards.

You need to have your own standard. If you want to hold out for years, that's fine. If you want a new guy every month, that's okay too. ;-)
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wheatish
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wheatish (Age:18 to 24)      When: 7 months ago
It really depends on her age. Each guy has a different opinion on the matter but for me I would say not more than two a year. As far as how few? It doesn't matter to me, I actually find inexperience in a woman sexy.
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coltdiddy
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coltdiddy (Age:18 to 24)      When: 7 months ago
As long as I'm having sex with a girl. Her "number" doesn't matter since at that given point in time I'm the only guy she's having sex with, except if it's a threesome or some weird orgy coke party. Have 2, have 33882 I don't give a f***. Just go and have sex, we don't have long for this world you know.
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bigbear
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bigbear (Age:Over 45)      When: 7 months ago
2 - Any more than 2 makes her easy
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ALWAYSclassy Does that apply to over 45 women too? What if she was with 3? Does that make her easy? - 7 months ago
Answerer What I meant was, if she is out playing the field for sex only, and not looking for marriage, then yes, she is very easy. - 7 months ago

ImtheJuggernaut
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ImtheJuggernaut (Age:18 to 24)      When: 7 months ago
Let em line up
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Scrimz21
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Scrimz21 (Age:Under 18)      When: 7 months ago
None more then 0.
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LuvTheBeach555
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LuvTheBeach555 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 7 months ago
I really don't think there is a magic number either... I would say no more than 10 and no less than 2... If you are with a virgin or somebody who has only experienced one guy... There is generally a lot of teaching and bad habits to break... Once in a relationship you become accustomed to one persons likes and dislikes and that could be completely different to the next guy... I think as long as you know what your doing, clean, and not slutty you should have nothing to worry about...
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samthan You said no less then 2... do you really think that I only been with one guy off and on we are totally on a rough patch so you could be right. - 7 months ago

sexwiseman
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sexwiseman (Age:30 to 35)      When: 7 months ago
I don't really have a magic number, but if you got 50 guys to your name, then, that's not good, no matter the age! :)

Granted I know couple of guys that probably pull in that number of girls in 6 months....talk about double standards...
Now, what I actually take into account is the reasoning behind the girl having a sexual partner. For example, if the girl tells me she has a boyfriend, just to use him for sex, but she has only had 5 sexual partners, then I would be careful with this girl because I would see her as somebody that would go out at any time, and get any guy just to have sex.

If I meet another girl that tells me she has had 5 sexual partners, but 2 of those schemed her (as many guys do), and 3 of them were guys she really liked or loved, then I would consider this girl to be safe as she is most likely not going to go out and just grab any guy to have sex with....hope that makes sense.
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sqyntz Totally makes sense!! and I agree with it whole heartedly! - 7 months ago
ALWAYSclassy I agree. I think you should judge based on context. - 7 months ago
mbeth881 THANK YOU! I was wondering when someone was going to mention the double standard. - 7 months ago
Candygirl6949 This is the BEST answer and makes the MOST sense - 6 months ago
 

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Andre19
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Andre19 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
Well I'm 18 and I've slept with 3 guys so far in the period of lets say 6 months, and I think its just right and don't care about anyone's contrary opinion cause I know what I'm doing and I feel good about it
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