Ok so I've been having sex with a guy I like for a little over a month now. Things are getting a lot more comfortable between us and I think we both want to "shake things up a bit". Any suggestions on what I can introduce that won't freak him out and will kind of pave the way for more things to come?
It depends on how important sex is for you. If it's important then you need to be happy with what you want to do and be yourself. If he doesn't like it maybe he's not the right guy for you. It would be nice if people were colored coded according to interests wouldn't it? Besides, I have yet to meet a guy that says "no, I'm not into porno style sex".
I think you need to give us a lot more info to be able to answer properly... What have you done already for one... Have things been pretty traditional to date... Also what kind of a freak you are...
Yea, things have been VERY traditional for the most part. Like I wanna know if I should start slow & just go with more than just the "normal positions" or if it's cool to start beinging stuff into it like for example doing the hot/cold routine during a bj - 8 months ago
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If that is all your talking about then go for... If he is shy you are going to have to go slow and make sure he communicates what he likes and dislikes... You can't judge a person for being curious... Just tell him you want to experiment a little... - 8 months ago
Can you describe what do you mean as in your a freak - I mean to most guys there's a saying "I want a lady in the street but a freak in the bed" also was in ushers yeah video but besides the point I think all guys want women who'll try different things, I don't think it should freak him out I think it should actually turn him on
Yea I know the saying and for the most part I agree with it, but this guy is totally shy. it took him like 3 weeks to get up the courage to kiss me! then it took another 2 weeks to get moving into other stuff. he likes to takes things slow. - 8 months ago
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The thing is...ask yourself how much do you truly like this guy? what are your feelings for him and what do you feel? he may be shy but have time and patience and see what will happen...if you can't take that, I'm sorry but I can't help you!!! - 8 months ago
Introduce the idea, to him, gradually. for instance, you could start by telling him about a certain 'position' you have read in a magazine, and search his comments, for this. if it seems favorable, then gradually begin to incorporate more, during foreplay. - 8 months ago
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Thanks dax. Your answer was way closer to what I was actually looking for :) - 8 months ago
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