I've always been asked by my partner to give him a blow job but I always say no... am I wrong in doing so? I feel that I'm not respected if he keeps on asking but he says he wants pleasure... what am I supposed to do?
Update: I've always told him that I don want.. but then he says that tis is a part of love.. n he meant as if I don love him if I don't wanna give him.. want am I supposed to do den.. I've tried to make him stop asking.. I'm quite a stubborn girl as well.. help me?
7 months ago
Sorry, but it sounds like he is a pouty, selfish, spoiled brat. Maybe you would be happier without him? Then again, maybe he is normal and it's you who has the problem. I'm not sure, because I don't know either one of you.
But the solution is simple. If neither one of you is going to budge on this issue, then the two of you just don't belong together and need to break up. .. Good luck in whatever decision you make.
Are you kidding??? Give him a blow job and step down off your pedestal. He is expressing that he is sexually horny and you are just flat out telling him that you do not wish to care about it. One thing you better learn is that if you find someone who is truly open with you, then you have found one in a million. I'm not saying drop to your knees on every request. But sexual affection and sharing is just that sharing. And you are telling him NO.
Tell him to go jerk off. Seriously if he can't respect you enough to stop asking you for it then he can;t respect you when it comes with a more basic principle. You are not being respected, once you are respected you will initiate this action.
He needs to really start respecting the fact you DON'T want to do it. Tell him if he doesn't stop asking you're going to re-consider the relationship.... and yes it may be part of love BUT it makes you uncomfortable so he really needs to back off.... Don't let any guy put you in a position where you are uncomfortable you can do better!
First of all, I think its ok if you don't. Don't do it if you really don't want to. Your partner needs to respect your decision. Theres nothing wrong with you if you don't want to give him a blow job.
Well, tell him pleasure is a 2 way street. Does he want you to ask him to perform this task all the time? Guy's like it. Do it on a special occasion. If he doesn't stop tell him you will put the Kabosh on it all together then he can get pleasure with his friend called Mr. Hand...
It really depends on your age and those kinds of things. It says your 18-24.. I'm younger than 18... I'm actually younger than 16 and I have did that. But If a guy kept asking and I didn't want to do it.. I would tell him to go suck his own d*ck because that would mean he really doesn't respect you. If you were to ask him to eat you out, do you think he would say no? If so you really should see where the relationship is heading because he can't expect to get sum but never give it back..
Tell him how you feel about it though, and what do you have against giving it to him?
Does it make you uncomfortable? Have you ever tried doing it before? If you are scared of taste don't be afraid to use a flavored condom or flavored lube. This is a HUGE help and makes it more enjoyable.
You're not wrong for saying no either. Some girl's just don't like doing it. I don't and never will do it without something flavored. I think the taste is disgusting. You could also tell him to let you know when he's about to cum so it doesn't go in your mouth.
Your boyfriend needs to respect the fact that you are not comfortable doing this. It's your choice... but you need to let him know. If he can't respect this then he doesn't have any respect for you. There are also other ways to pleasure him like hand jobs. Just talk to him and see how it goes. Let him know that he needs to respect you are uncomfortable and make sure you tell him that!!
Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
My ideal first date would be to do something my date and I like. So if my date is into sports, we could go to a basketball or football game and since I'm a movie freak we could go to the movies afterwards and then finish up with dinner. I would wear casual clothes, jeans and a nice t-shirt. The date could end at my doorstep, the next date he might be able to come in.
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
Afterwards, my date would know a lot about. They would know about what I like to do for fun, they would know my favorites. I would tell them about my family and my lifestyle. I won't tell everything because there wouldn't anything left to tell on the next date.
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