How can I become a good kisser so that I am ready for my first kiss and so I am not embarrassed when this guy kisses me and then I kiss him back and it is totally not good. So I want to know what I have to do to become a good kisser.
I had a sort of similar problem just a few weeks ago.
I met this one girl at a mutual friend's party and we really hit it off. I saw her once after that, seeing a movie. She ended up throwing a New Years party and her friend pulled me aside and asked me if I wanted to make out with her that night. I said something along the lines of "sure" and then she walked back to everybody.
Well, I had never made out with anybody before that night and was a little worried because I knew it wouldn't be her first time making out with somebody. So eventually it got to a point where we were playing Truth or Dare and I knew that something was gonna go down. Eventually, we got dared to make out and I though "screw it, I'll try" and went for it. Well, after about... two seconds she pulled away and said "you suck at this" and everybody laughed. I explained that I hadn't made out with anybody before that and crap and was ridiculed a bit, but it soon stopped. We tried again and it still kind of sucked.
Moral of the story, if ya can, try to find a guy who hasn't had his first kiss either, it'll be much more natural and neither of you will feel unselfconscious because neither of you had done it before. If not, explain you hadn't had you first kiss and if he's a good guy, he'll help ya out a bit, haha. There isn't really anything I can think of that will help out practice kissing except for a person.
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