I was looking at some of these questions it made me think back to the other night when me and this guy were fooling around . He penetrated me like he wasn't going just yet , but he entered me and it hurt , than it stop and than I felt the pain again. The pain was so bad or I was nervous that my leg started to shake.
So even though we didn't reach our peak did I lose my virginity ?
Update: thank you everybody , also after the second time it start hurting & my leg start shaking I made him stop , but I guess I'm not a virgin
9 months ago
If your hymen was breached as per sexual intercourse, or you have been entered by a penis(hymen can sometimes be broken by other means), you have lost your virginity. Same for a guy. Orgasm isn't necessary, entrance is the key mark.
Well, technically maybe you're not virgin anymore, but the thruht is that because the interruption, you haven't had yet the whole sex experience, so you are in a sort of "grey zone". Most important is to ask yourself these questions: Do you really like this guy or at least feel comfortable enough to have sex with him? Do you trust him? Do you feel prepared for this step? Do you know how to protect yourself against undesired consequences? If the answer is YES to all then next time you will enjoy sex in body and mind, and no way you can claim virginity anymore! BUT if the answer to any of these questions is NO then your next sex encounter will never be 100% satisfactory (and that happens a lot!) ... and again, you won't virgin anymore, but just less happy...
keep having sex it will feel better as you go along. By the way the hymen usually is torn earlier on for example have you ever put a tampon in? You have probably broken your hymen and took your own virginity. So don't worry about stuff like that. Honestly its better if you just enjoy yourself.
I think a better question is: do you feel like you're still a virgin? I don't really think some technical definition of virginity is useful. Virginity really isn't a very useful concept unless it means something to you.
For example, lots of girls think they can go have lots of anal sex but remain virgins. To me, this is silly, but it really doesn't matter what I think. Also, gay or lesbian sex doesn't necessarily involve penetration, but that doesn't make it any less of a sexual act to me.
I think the best thing is to really figure out what virginity means to you and ignore everybody else.
There's a really good book called "Virgin: The Untouched History" that I really recommend. It will show you a lot of the ways that the obsession with virginity is both silly and misogynistic. Rather than seeing sex as some big, orgasm/penetration event, it's much more useful to see it as a process. There are a lot more important things than what was technically your first time.
There are quite a few women who can't orgasm or "reach their peak" by penetration, so by those standards many of those women would be virgins... and have kids.
So no, you're not a virgin anymore if his penis went in your vagina.
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