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Am I still a virgin?

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freedomlives (Age:18 to 24)     When: 9 months ago
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I was looking at some of these questions it made me think back to the other night when me and this guy were fooling around . He penetrated me like he wasn't going just yet , but he entered me and it hurt , than it stop and than I felt the pain again. The pain was so bad or I was nervous that my leg started to shake.

So even though we didn't reach our peak did I lose my virginity ?


Update: thank you everybody , also after the second time it start hurting & my leg start shaking I made him stop , but I guess I'm not a virgin    9 months ago

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ndadrnk
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ndadrnk      When: 2 months ago
If your hymen was breached as per sexual intercourse, or you have been entered by a penis(hymen can sometimes be broken by other means), you have lost your virginity. Same for a guy. Orgasm isn't necessary, entrance is the key mark.
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l-hedoniste
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l-hedoniste      When: 9 months ago
If losing your virginity means, for you, reaching your peak, then you're still a virgin.
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regular-guy
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regular-guy      When: 9 months ago
Yes. You lost your virginity in the technical sense of the word and every other sense of the word and what it implies.
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jeancarlos
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jeancarlos      When: 9 months ago
Well, technically maybe you're not virgin anymore, but the thruht is that because the interruption, you haven't had yet the whole sex experience, so you are in a sort of "grey zone". Most important is to ask yourself these questions: Do you really like this guy or at least feel comfortable enough to have sex with him? Do you trust him? Do you feel prepared for this step? Do you know how to protect yourself against undesired consequences? If the answer is YES to all then next time you will enjoy sex in body and mind, and no way you can claim virginity anymore! BUT if the answer to any of these questions is NO then your next sex encounter will never be 100% satisfactory (and that happens a lot!) ... and again, you won't virgin anymore, but just less happy...
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aidsleen
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aidsleen      When: 9 months ago
yes, you were no longer a virgin the second he penetrated you
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jen0908
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jen0908      When: A month ago
Yes you lost your virginity. If your hymen broke then you are no longer a virgin.
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emzy-89
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emzy-89      When: 2 months ago
yes you've lost your virginity. as soon as a guy penetrates you its gone.
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thelollipopmafia
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thelollipopmafia      When: 3 months ago
It depends on your definition of virginity. But in my mind, you are no longer a virgin because of the penetration.
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nickiw1992
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nickiw1992      When: 3 months ago
When a penis enters the vagina...it means that you lost your virginity.
Sorry :((
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elvarain
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elvarain      When: 4 months ago
keep having sex it will feel better as you go along. By the way the hymen usually is torn earlier on for example have you ever put a tampon in? You have probably broken your hymen and took your own virginity. So don't worry about stuff like that. Honestly its better if you just enjoy yourself.
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elliot4eva
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elliot4eva      When: 7 months ago
go to the doctor there's a skin wen something breaks the skin the doctor can see when the skin breaks though it shouldn't be painful
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ohsocurious
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ohsocurious      When: 7 months ago
you are no longer a virgin
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k02652
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k02652      When: 8 months ago
if his dick went into your vadge then yes you lost your virginity
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dancr21
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dancr21      When: 9 months ago
technically you aren't a virgin because you broke your hymen but if you consider losing ur virginity a climax, than no
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sarah-a180
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sarah-a180      When: 9 months ago
I think a better question is: do you feel like you're still a virgin? I don't really think some technical definition of virginity is useful. Virginity really isn't a very useful concept unless it means something to you.

For example, lots of girls think they can go have lots of anal sex but remain virgins. To me, this is silly, but it really doesn't matter what I think. Also, gay or lesbian sex doesn't necessarily involve penetration, but that doesn't make it any less of a sexual act to me.

I think the best thing is to really figure out what virginity means to you and ignore everybody else.

There's a really good book called "Virgin: The Untouched History" that I really recommend. It will show you a lot of the ways that the obsession with virginity is both silly and misogynistic. Rather than seeing sex as some big, orgasm/penetration event, it's much more useful to see it as a process. There are a lot more important things than what was technically your first time.

A better notion is "yes," you're sexually active.
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cranberygrl
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cranberygrl      When: 9 months ago
There are quite a few women who can't orgasm or "reach their peak" by penetration, so by those standards many of those women would be virgins... and have kids.

So no, you're not a virgin anymore if his penis went in your vagina.
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samiam90
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samiam90      When: 9 months ago
yeah... if his penis entered your vagina and it hurt I'm pretty sure you did...
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