I was just wondering, how many girls in here have had to fake it before? Just trying to get a general picture of how many girls fake orgasms here with their guys.
Yeah I think most women have faked more enthusiasm then they feel sometime or another. Sometimes they just don't know how to tell the guy he's not hitting the spot, or sometimes you get tired of telling someone who just won't listen, or sometimes you just want it over.
Now that I'm older and more confident sexually I take responsibility for my own orgasm, not expecting him to give me one. I make it happen, and I show him how to make it happen for me.
Oh yes I have plenty of times....not that he wasn't doing a good job I just wasn't in the mood. It takes a little for me to get excited and guys need to realize that it's not as easy to please a women. It takes a little more work and practice to make us feel really good.
I don't fake it, if he sucks I don't lie. Im sorry but I have to let him know. It's harder to please a girl than it is for a guy I understand that, but I'm not going to boost a guys ego when he really doesn't deserve it.
I don't believe in faking orgasms. I don't reward bad behavior. if he's not pleasing me, i'm not gonna pretend that he is b/c how else is he gonna learn? that's not fair, dudes have an orgasm every time so I expect to have one too
Last time I faked it I was about 16 years old. I only did it a couple times and if you ask me it's immature. ha ha man, if I had to fake it now a days I'd probably break up with the guy the next day.
I'm with kiamia on this one. I've never faked. The thing is, sex is very different for guys and girls. But I think it needs to be said that girls may not have orgasms as much, but we still enjoy sex so don't worry, you're still pleasing us! If we weren't having fun, we wouldn't do it!
I have before, but I failed even trying. XD I didn't want him to feel bad, but I couldn't keep faking it and finally told him. Takes a little more to please a woman than it does a man. ;]
Ya, cause I mean its not something we want, we wanna know that we are messing up, or else we cannot correct it in the future. And it'll always be that way. - 7 months ago
Been there, done that. And it was not just because the guy was bad. I was just not in the mood. It takes a lot to get me in the mood if I am not craving sex and it was just easier for me to be happy making him happy than to work on getting me real excited.
I like to get guys off but if I felt that he was someone that would never get me to that point in bed, I would not fake it and tell him that it is not working out.
Why fake it? If it doesn't feel good I tell him....... it doesn't feel good do it like this instead lol. I'm not shy and I speak my mind. I guess it's kinda good and kinda bad but... if the girl or guy isn't feeling right they need to speak up! Otherwise it's always going to be sucky. You need to teach each other what you like.
My ex husband was so boring I would fake it all the time. I got pretty good at and I was so bored during the act... I would laugh a little at myself. So, that would be a huge yes for me.
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