I suggest you only listen to people who've actually done it. Some people try it and don't like it, many people don't like the idea of it - which is fair enough. But equally, many people DO enjoy it with absolutely no adverse effects. My girlfriend and I get a lot of pleasure out of it. Try it and see. But of course be very careful. Double condom is preferable, and be sure you're bottom hole is well lubed beforehand.
Why double condom? The friction just makes it more likely to tear, and even though we aren't dealing with risk of pregnancy, I don't see the point. - 8 months ago
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Good point in fairness. My first anal sex experiences were with a girl who preferred anal to vaginal, and she insisted on it. Some might say the risks are worse than unwanted pregnancy though. I personally never found having two condoms decreased the pleasure for either of us. - 8 months ago
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Anal is definitely not the way to go! It's not hot! It hurts most girls and it's almost impossible for a girl to have an orgasm that way unless a guy is fingering her at the same time. It's just a perverse way for a guy to get off so they try to make a big deal about it. Some girls actually make like it's just fine.
Never tried it, but definitely NOT hot in my opinion. If you search for other questions on anal sex here and you will read horror stories about poop, sometimes a lot, becoming part of the sexual experience--definitely not my idea of hot (one woman mentioned involuntarily pooping all over her sheets...ewww). Women also consistently say it hurts, and that you have to use a LOT of lube. Vaginal and oral are so nice, why the need for anal?
I love it. I think it is extremely hot. Every time I have sex I have anal in the mix. When you get experienced with all the cleaning and relaxation steps and have a lover who also knows what to do then I personally find that it never hurts or even feels uncomfortable. Many women who practice at this find that it is usually not painful for them. Education on the subject is a good idea even if it is a passing interest. I highly recommend looking up Dr. Tristan Taormino on google for her books, videos and website. She's a true expert.
make sure your pipes are empty if you know what I mean. if you have blockage then it's uncomfortable and you feel like you really have to poop. some people recommend getting an enema beforehand, so there's less of a chance of getting poop on his member. also make sure that he goes really slow, inch by inch. once he's inside, have him slowly thrust himself in little short movements. he shouldn't be pounding in and out of you. it feels kinda good when he does it right. if he's too big then it just hurts.
When I had anal for the first time, it hurt like hell. I don't know how some people can enjoy it (or how it doesn't hurt for them). But for me personally, it hurt bad. I cried.
I Have 3 Tattoos One On The Top Of My Foot. I Thought I Was Dying When I Got It... Anal Is Almost Just As Bad.. Lol. My Advice If Your Going To Try It, Get Drunk The First Couple Times. =P Start With Fingers. And Lots Of Lube. For Me It Won't Ever Be As Enjoyable AS Sex... But It's Not As Bad Now.
I think it hurts like hell! and I have a very high pain tolerance...If you have ever gotten a tattoo? I think it hurts more than that... I don't see at all where it's enjoyable..
yes and yes use lots of lube like when you think you used enough use more lol also I have my husband warm me up first I would said try it at least twice
The first time doing anal sex, if not lubed or turned on it will be the most painful thing you've ever experienced (except childbirth, its like 10 steps higher than being really constipated..) when he's penetrating, its really painful, you'll need to tell him to go slow until you are comfortable, don't let him come inside you omg its sooo nasty, unless you like that thing...
IF YOU ARE TURNED ON, it will feel good, but also like you have to take a poop.
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