Sex before marriage

It really surprises me that more guys than girls voted no O.O

I said no because I am divorced and have been around the block too many times to count! I'm beginning to feel that when I have sex again, that I want it to be with the person who is most special to me and that it would be a life-long relationship this time. I've had plenty of meaningless sex but I guess I've just been left feeling empty by all of it. I don't know if that makes sense?

I think yes. So you know what ur doing and have no regrets while being married or being curious about what could have been. How do you know what its like until you experience it yourself. Everyone will tell you what its like but until you try it for yourself. Who knows best only you.

I think it's important to do it before marriage, to know whether or not you are sexually compatible with your partner. You plan on having sex with them for the rest of your life, so you want to be sure you are making the right choice of partners. At least that's how I look at it.

I said no because, call me old fashioned, I believe that waiting will enhance the first time experience. Yes---I am a 22 year old virgin. I am proud. I look a some of my horn dog friends, and most of them have/had an STD or been pregnant. I just rather wait and enter a monogamous relationship. I believe a marriage is between One Man and One Woman!!!!

Definitely yes.

Nooo

I said yes. Sex is the feeling and you should not try to control. If you feel having sex, do it.
Dont suppress it. It is difficult to get married at early. But your sexual feelings started at your teenage. So it is difficult to wait for 10+ years to have sex.

I chose maybe because if you feel that you are ready and that you found your "True Love" which I think is B.S by the way, anyway if your ready and you find the right person then go for it

I joined him on the no, though I don't agree with sex before marriage, I have slipped so I am not perfect. But I would take it back in a heart beat if I could.

Peace!!

Weirdly enough I'm not surprised that out of 9 votes I'm the only No. I wonder just how long it will last...?

I answered"C". It should be "B", but let's face reality. Sex should never be casual, though.

wow, the results here have surprised me!

I say yes.

1. And, I have a few reasons to back that up. 1, I love god. He says that whatever happens, happens and it happens for a reason. I am christian.. it does say to wait until you are married in the bible, but marriage is basically something to prove your love. So if you really love somebody and you have sex then it is basically like not losing your virginity. I mean it is.. but it isn't. Plus, sometimes there is no choice. Like rape.. you can't stop that from happening and it does happen alot.

2. If you feel something is right you will do it. Just like if you wanted to ask this question you asked it.

3. I do believe you should wait until you are atleast 16, though. If you have sex before then you most-likely will run into physical and emotional problems.. I have seen it firsthand with 4 of my friends.

4. It isn't hurting anybody as long as you wait until you are ready, you are in love, and you are TESTED. If you don't get tested... don't have sex. Nothing is worse than SPREADING A DISEASE to a person you love.. or to a friend.

So I say yes, but I have circumnstances so I think I'm inbetween.

I answered maybe because for a long time I wanted to wait for the perfect guy and when I thought I found him, I made a mistake lol. So It's more about how you feel about the person. Trust me, even when a guy seems perfect, he's not... so there's no true perfect guy out there. You can only rely on your own instincts. You don't have to rush out into the world having sex, but you don't have to hold back either. You'll know the guy when you meet him.

Sex before marriage can cause trouble, And I personally suck when it comes to trouble. So it's a No for me.

Em yes aren't people who wait ever horny?? I know I could never wait whats the point anyway we only live once !! what if you were waiting until marriage and then tommorow died or summit would you wanta die known you never exsperienced sex I know I wouldnt!! like sex is a natural thing it don't have to be made out to be this big emotional envolvement thing that a lot of people make it out to be !! you don't have 2 love the person you have sex with it would be nice!! but just once you really like or fancy them yhen go 4 it lol!! ps I'm jnot a slut or anything ive only ever had 4 sexual partners

I give a wholehearted YES.

I used to be one of those girls who believed in saving herself for marriage. It's very unrealistic. The thing is, if you save yourself for marriage, you're saving yourself for this one guy, and your ENTIRE life builds up to this moment. But then you get to that moment, on the night of your honeymoon, and you find out the reality of sex for women.

IT SUCKS THE FIRST TIME.

I'm not saying sleep around. Only give someone that part of yourself if you care for them and don't make the mistake of giving the gift lightly. Trust me, that mistake is hard to live with.

There's also the factor that if you're saving yourself and the guy has pressured you for sex, you're only getting married to him so you won't feel guilty about having sex with him.

Which, I don't even think I need to say, is a bad reason to get married to someone.

Besides, I wholeheartedly believe you'd be missing out. :)