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My boyfriend doesn't find me attractive anymore

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Confusedgirl (Age:18 to 24)     When: More than a year ago
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I just had a baby 6 weeks ago, I have lost 50lbs. My boyfriend acts like he's not turned on by me anymore, we have sex, like this week we have it only twice, we used do it every night. I just ignored until the other night I was sleeping and I woke up to him on the computer masturbating to porn. I don't understand why he doesn't come to me. I would even have sex with while watching porn, he knows that. So, why does he keep on doing this? What should I do?

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sfcswede (Age:36 to 45)      When: More than a year ago
I honestly don't think its you. there's a baby in the house now, and that puts a lot of stress on everyone. Are you sure your not suffering from post partum depression and blowing this outta proportion? He MAY have a unconcious fear of getting you pregnant again also. TALK to him and find out why without being judgmental about it, or trying to put him down for it. Agreeing with Monkey again here...porno is harmless, and a quick way to get the job done.
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monkey (Age:30 to 35)      When: More than a year ago
Porn is completely harmless. Sometimes it's just faster and easier to whack off to porn than do the song and dance for the real thing.
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Is this his baby? How old is he? Young guys aren't mature enough to handle watching your body go through a pregnancy and still look at you the same way. If it's his baby, stick with it because you don't break up a family cause he was jacking off to porn. If it isn't, then, damn, you get around fast. Find one that's worth sticking with.
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420Honey (Age:18 to 24)      When: More than a year ago
You should ask him if he still thinks you're attractive, if he says yes then say "why were you masturbating to porn then?" Either he'll have an answer and if he doesn't DROP HIM. Its sounds hard and stupid since you just had a baby but if he's acting this way only 6 weeks after, he ain't f**king worth it at all.
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