Boyfriend misses sex with ex... is this normal?

My inital thoughts:

unfortunately it sounds like you heard something you didn't need to hear. Guys always talk a bunch of BS and while I don't condone it I do think it's harmless.

I think you should ignore that dumb ass comment if you two are happy. But honestly if It were me I'd leave him because I'd have that image stuck in my head and I'd feel insecure with him.

A story that makes me rethink my initial thoughts:

I came home early from work one day and while standing at the door to our apartment I over heard my then boyfriend say to his co worker (who was visiting) that for their Xmas party they should hire strippers to give them all lap dances and then afterward they could take them in the back to F them.

Obviously this was that guy BS talk because I'm sure their boss wouldn't allow such a thing but I let this pass understanding "men will be men" and about 5 months later he cheated on me.

Think about it. that's all I'm saying

DO NOT HAVE A THREESOME with his ex cause it might make him feel that he wants his ex more than you and as for me I'm currently in a relationship and I mean I would remember my previous sex partners, but I don't miss having sex with them. The only reason you'll miss it is if you're not satisfy or there's a certain thing that person did that you liked and would want it again.

no threesome! Find out what she does that is better.

He may have serious relationship with her and still it hard to get her over his mind. But still wanted to sleep with her again is not a good thing. Also I can't accept the elibi that he is not mentioning you because it would be disrespectful. Then why is he mentioning his ex if it is disrespectful?

Is it that you can talk about your ex. so if ever you would be his ex - he will talk about how you are in bed.

Your life, I said what I felt was right.

It's normal to some extent which is why it's important to be single for a while after a serious relationship ends. I see fewer and fewer people being single on purpose these days. It's tough sometimes but it makes you become a whole person again, independent and ready to move on. He's not over her if he wants to combine what he has with you and what he had with her, or he's just a pig. You know better than any of us on here.