Me and boyfriend have done a lot with other sexually. But, he doesn't really take anything off because he feels self-conscious.(he has obviously taken off what he needed too :p) I suggested that we take a shower together sometime and he is very nervous because he doesn't feel comfortable with him body (he still told me he wanted to do it though). I've already told him that he looks fine to me and I don't care if he doesn't have a six pack or anything like that. Which is true :]
Is there anything I can do to help him be comfortable?
i went through the exact same thing with my boyfriend not too long ago. he was soooo self-conscious. one night, we spent several hours together just exploring each other's bodies. we started by taking our shirts off and eventually got down to taking everything off. we spent some time getting used to each step, and it worked out really well. I ended up being the first one with everything off. you could try that. it might help him feel better. just keep reassuring him, and he should eventually get used to it. oh, and the shower thing is the best :). it's one of our favorite things to do together now. best of luck to you!
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