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Does having sex for the first time hurt?

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packman1 (Age:Under 18)     When: 7 months ago
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Me and my girlfriend are thinking of having sex for the first time and we heard that it hurts is that true?

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aznkhmaigrl-714 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 7 months ago
I have to go with the guys on this one. For the guy, they will get the pleasure for the first time. The girl will possibly go through some pain. But if you don't want her to get hurt, just ease up. Go slowly and gradually speed up. Hope this helps. :)
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It depends. It may hurt a little the first time, or it may not. Just relax your bodies (don't stress cause if it does hurt, it might make it worse), have fun and be safe!
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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)      When: 7 months ago
It does hurt for some people...!!but in my experience it didn't really hurt!!
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Question Asker Thank you for that answer - 7 months ago
 

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johnsmith2116 (Age:30 to 35)      When: 5 months ago
It can hurt for her just a little, if her hymen isn't broken yet. But it eventually feels better. Nothing to worry about.
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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)      When: 7 months ago
If it's painful for anyone, it will be painful for the girl, not the guy. When a girl loses her virginity, a thin membrane (the hymen) is broken. The thickness of the membrane will determine how much pressure is required to break it--if it's thick, it could take a lot of pressure, which would result in more pain. For the average girl, it's probably a little uncomfortable, but not unbearable.

I personally think that you both should wait until you're older, since you're barely at the age of consent. You may be physically ready for the act, but your emotional maturity is not complete.
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Inkweaver2 I agree with you completely on waiting. My boyfriend and I are at the same age as the one you are leaving advice for. We've both decided it will only hurt our relationship in the long run, hurt my reputation, get us in trouble with our parents, and risk screwing our lives up completely. Plus, we just think it is the right thing to do. It is nice to hear someone who agrees with us. Thanks. :) - 2 months ago

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Vassar (Age:25 to 29)      When: 7 months ago
For the chick it does but if your gentle and ease your way in and not go crazy then you guys could have a nice time...
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