Is there such a thing as virginity over the age of 20?

I have many many friends who are over 20 even in there 30's who are virgins, but we are Christians and choose to save ourselves for our husbands and wives. It's not really about what other people do though its about what you want to do and what you believe is right for you.

First off, congratulations on having staying power! There should be more guys like you. I think Davidsaj has a point, I go to church and I am still a virgin, waiting for marriage. So, yes, it is possible, just hard to find in this day and age. Also, even if I wasn't religious, I would want to wait for marriage b/c that is when it is less about sex and more about the connection and love. You won't care how awkward it is the first time b/c you are with the person you KNOW loves you; it's too intimate to be with anyone else. Just think of why you want to wait everytime you get the urge. Believe me, I get urges, but it is possible to resist!

I think its great I lost mine on my 20's birthday it was too someone that I dated for like 6 or 7 months I have no regrets. I still love him and we are still hanging out we will see what happens he wasn't a virgin its ok. It was special too me.

I'm 19 and a virgin, and I plan on keeping mine for the "one" as well. I'm sure that there are women who prefer more experienced guys, but personally, I would be touched to be a guy's first, especially at your age. There are definitely girls out there with similar values to yourself who are looking for a guy just like you who values sex as something deeper and more important than just something fun to do with any girl who wants it. And it's difficult for girls who want that to find virgins over about 18-20, so you will be a rare and wonderful find for that perfect girl! Props to you for waiting! :)

I waited until I was 21 to lose my virginity to my boyfriend of 5 years. He was a virgin as well, and although it was difficult to not just go at it when we were 18, we are both SO happy we waited until we knew it was what we wanted completely. Stick it out and wait for that special person--all the girls I know, (myself included,) like men who are able to control their urges and aren't just in relationships for sex. You rock. :)

It matters to some, but not others. Whether it matters to YOU or not is the only thing that matters.
Many people anonymously admit it, so, there are actually quite a few. Don't worry, you're going to get it sooner or later. Just don't give up.

Lol yes there are bro... your a smart man like myself. I'm 17 and I'm saving for marriage most likely just because that's the right way to do it. Truthfully you have to be stupid to lose it before marriage. A girl in my class lost it in 7th grade when she was 11... that's so messed up

Sure thing bro. Just because people ain't out there talkin' about it at older age levels doesn't mean there ain't folks like that. Plus for those of us who were in our early 20's, it's too late to brag to your friends. Do what's right for you, dig.

I was a virgin till 23 myself, partly because I wanted to save myself, and partly because I am shy and not as outgoing as other guys (well I'm much more outgoing now, a year later).

It does exist, but as you note, it's getting harder to find. I waited until after 20, and my girlfriend was around 20 as well. We were both virgins who had been dating each other for quite a while.

I think what many people don't understand or appreciate is that it's possible for a virgin to have a high sex drive. It's more difficult to remain chaste, but perfectly possible.

As long as you've done your homework for when the right time presents itself (in other words, know enough that you won't fumble around and propagate the "virgins are horrible in bed" stereotype), the woman will probably be flattered by the fact that you waited for her.

Well, it really depends on who you date, I lost my virginity when I was 23, and my girlfriend was actually very impressed that I waited for her and although it took me a little while to become an expert in sex, I know that it meant a lot to her. If you find the right women and get to know her first then I am sure she will be impressed, but I'm sure there are plenty of people who will say that is not true. The important thing is that you stood up for what you believe in and you don't have any STD's either. Just keep looking and make sure you are looking in the right spots, for the right someone, trust me it is worth it!