I stare at girls boobs a lot, and sometimes, when I'm close to a girl (whether I think she's good looking or not, and I don't feel anything for her) I sometimes get really light headed or I feel myself get kind of hyper and feel the need to walk really fast (or break into a run). Sometimes I do get kinda excited, but only if girls are in revealing clothes. So, I don't know if I'm bi, gay or straight. I do have a crush on a guy, and I've never really had feelings for girls before. Oh, and sometimes I want to kiss a girl cause I would think it would be better than kissing a guy. Some days I'm convinced I'm gay and others I'm convinced I'm straight. Also, I really don't want to experiment, and I've never been in a relationship with a guy before. I've never been kissed. I'm really not comfortable with anything to do with relationships.
Sexuality is complicated, no doubt. The older you get the more you will learn this. I am a very straight male. Yet, I have had almost 25 partners, all female... and I've been married for almost ten years.
I also LOVE to watch lesbian sex (video, etc.) -- and my personal fantasy is to watch my wife "do" another woman.......and maybe me.
My point is, again, sex is not black and white. And what you feel is never wrong (unless you are hurting someone else). Enjoy yourself, Explore. But remember, don't cum on the keyboard. Cool?
I'm around your same age and have dealt with similar feelings since my teen years. I am in an exclusive, long-term relationship with a man who I love deeply, and have no real desire to experiment with women, but the female form is, for lack of a better term, a "turn-on" for me. I've decided that human bodies are beautiful, no matter what gender, and if a certain person's figure arouses me, it is from my appreciation of their beauty. Don't feel pressured to experiment with either sex...just let things progress naturally, and you'll be fine, no matter what your sexual preference ends up being.
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What pickup lines do you use to start a conversation with someone you are attracted to?
Well I don't really use pickup lines I just ask . What's up? How are you doing? and hope that she starts talking with me. in some cases ill throw out something funny or just completely off the wall but that's only if the mood is really light at the time.
How do they typically respond?
Well most women willtalk to me for a couple of minutes then they decide to either keep talking to me or just excuse themselves from the convo.