There is a video on youporn.com where a girl deepthroats a guy and gags a lot. The video has nearly 4,000,000 hits and nearly 15,000 ratings. The average rating is 4.65/5, or 9.3/10. For every person who rates it 0/5, there are 15 who rate it 5/5. Guys simply like the kinkyness. There's a reason why it's rated as one of the top videos. The majority of men go on porn sites occasionally, so it's a pretty decent sample.
The most important thing about proper deep-throating is trust. You need to have a pre-arranged signal so that if you get into difficulty the guy will pull out straight-away. Don't ever let a guy force your head onto his cock and hold it there so that you cannot pull away.
My girlfriend has developed a technique that she says is comfortable-and it certainly works for me. She lies on her back across the bed so that her head and neck are off the side. She tilts her head right back and opens her mouth. This also opens her throat. I crouch or kneel and enter her mouth. If I'm very stiff I find that I can go really deep and into the top of her throat, and she ends up with her face in my balls. It has to be slower and careful but its fantastic when we get it right. There is more friction than a normal BJ and when I cum, its very intense. She says I cum for longer (although I haven't noticed that) If she has a problem with her airway she has a little buzzer in her hand that she presses. I stop immediately and withdraw. Make sure you know what you're doing before you try it.
Okay, I've been drinking tonight, so forgive me if this goes astray.
Why do we guys love deep throat so much? It's like normal sex + the tongue! Any guy who has ever been fortunate enough to have a chick do this for him knows exactly what I mean. It's freakin' AWESOME. lol
(My wife says) the best way to do it without gagging too much, is first of all to tell your guy to ease off with the hair-grabbing. Also it's best to have 1 or 2 drinks before (it relaxes the gag reflex). Practice helps, too, she says....and when your guys "pops", make sure you have his head all the way in -- you won't taste the salty white stuff so much -- and your guy will be in heaven.
All I know is that when my wife does this, I feel like I am on dope.
So once I have the whole thing in my mouth, what do I do with my tongue? I have never done this but would like to try... I thought the good feeling was because they hit the soft palate with the head of the penis... Thanks for commenting! - 8 months ago
If you have your hands lubed up you can give the guy the exact same feeling using your mouth on the helmet and your hands on the shank so no need to deep throat.
That is sick. (talking to the unknown-user) person1, I think your advice is great because that knowledge will probably keep a lot of girl from gagging. - 3 months ago
I LOVE doing it and every time I've pulled out that trick on my FWB, he goes nuts. It's nice to know why guys like it. I was beginning to think they liked to see a girl gag! LOL. I find the best way to avoid gagging is to not think about it. If you feel like you're going to gag, just relax. Try your best to relax your throat and just "embrace" the feeling of something really far back in your throat. It definitely takes some getting used to. Guys, if your girl hasn't done it before and she wants to learn, best just let her have all the control. It can be a little scary if he's holding your head on his member and you can't breathe! Also, I don't know about deep throating the WHOLE time (that can actually be harmful to your throat and you have sinus openings back there.don't want an infection!) but deep throating him when he least expects it while you're giving him a blow job is the best. And then, yes, of course, give him what he's dying for in the end and deep throat him as he comes. It's a sure winner!
Thanks for your comment! How do I know by myself when he is coming? Sometimes I can't really tell... - 3 months ago
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The best way to know if you're just not sure, is, I would say, just ask him to let you know. Plus, I'm sure based on his excitement level alone i.e. he'll be really really aroused, you'll know when he's about to come. - 3 months ago
I always like to keep my man pleased, and while I'm really good at giving regular head, I've for some reason always had a hard time with deep throat....
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