Say you start dating someone. You really like her...and everything is going great. About a month after you start seeing each other...you sleep together. A little while later...you guys are still together...and you find out she was a virgin a didn't tell you.
Would you care? Would you be okay with the fact that she didn't tell you or would you rather her be honest with you from the start?
I would be okay with that. It's not as if she owes it to me to tell me. And, since I didn't ask about it anyway, it's not as if it was her responsibility to bring it up.
I personally would have liked to know from the start but It would not be a big issue for me. The Main reason that I would want to know is because of what I have heard about womens first time having sex. I have been told that sex for women the first few times can hurt her if it is not taken slowly. By knowing that you were a virgin, I would have been able to make sure that I was not hurting you and help make your first time a special time.
on the other hand, not knowing that you were, would not be a big issue but I would be a little worried at first that I may have hurt you or that it may not have been special enough for you during your special time.
Of course he would be ok with it, every guy I know WANTS to be the first. As long as you explain why you lied or didn't tell him, he shouldn't be bothered by it, maybe thrilled.
That's strange, all the guys I know who've had sex with virgins said they didn't like it and wouldn't really want to do it again. I couldn't say since I've never had sex with a virgin. - 6 months ago
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They may say that, but almost every guy I've ever talked to secretly wants to be the first. They may not necessarily enjoy the sex, it's more about that ego boost I guess. - 6 months ago
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